Hair loss can be a challenging and emotional experience, but with the right approach and knowledge, it can also be a path to rediscovery and confidence. In our latest "Beyond the Head Start" episode, we're joined by Debora Routhe, a seasoned professional in hair replacement solutions, to discuss practical advice for those experiencing hair loss and for stylists looking to specialize in this transformative field.
Debora brings a unique perspective to the table, sharing not just her professional expertise but her personal experience with hair loss due to Hashimoto's disease. Her insights offer comfort and understanding to those on a similar journey.
Stylists seeking to enter the niche of hair replacement will find valuable information in Debora's interview. She covers everything from the significance of continuous education to the intricacies of personalizing hairpieces for clients with diverse needs.
The full interview is packed with actionable advice for both consumers and stylists. Click below to gain insights that can help you or your clients reclaim not just hair, but a sense of self.
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If you're on the search for the perfect topper, don't give up – you're almost there! I always emphasise that straight out of the bag or box, a topper or wig is bound to look wiggy and less than stellar, regardless of how expensive it may be. It's only after proper styling that toppers and wigs truly come to life and look amazing. Just take a look at this video of my mother experiencing her first-ever topper.
We recently had a topper shoot, and I invited my mother to join at the last minute. What you witness in this video is real, unscripted, and captured all in one take (with a longer version soon to be released).
I must admit, I'm not a stylist, and this was my first time witnessing a cut-in with styling. I had the privilege of witnessing three cut-ins. Now I see how important it is to have your topper cut-in and styled. There are two essential aspects to this process: the styling, which includes parting the hair and washing (you can learn this yourself, and we have plenty of videos coming out soon), and the cut-in, which needs to be done by a professional.
So, don't give up on your journey. Ensure you get proper styling and a cut-in beforehand so that you can witness how amazing toppers can look. You might start hearing compliments from friends and family like, "Wow, you look amazing!" and "There's something different about you," as they try to figure out what it is. Our stylist in the video, Deborah, always says, "You don't need to tell anyone you're wearing a topper."
My jaw was on the floor while watching this cut-in on my mother. I initially thought I would notice the topper because I see her all the time, but after the cut-in and styling, I couldn't notice a thing. The transition was seamless, the density was perfect, and the colour was spot-on. Seeing her regularly and being involved in the creation of these toppers, I was genuinely impressed.
- James Todd (Dimples CEO)
]]>Hi, I'm Ashley. This year marks, and today I'm looking at the hair and 19-inch wig from Dimples Hair. I am so excited to get into this because, well, you know, I do a lot of budget reviews, but I have yet to do a true luxury piece review. And that's exactly what this is, a luxury hairpiece. So let's get into it.
All right. Before we get started, just a little bit of backstory. Dimples has been around for a long time, I believe since the 1960s. And the CEO, James Todd, is the son of the founder. It's a cool story that it is a family company, and they have been providing hairpieces to women for generations. This piece, "The Hair," is 19 inches.
It features beautiful Remy hair and comes complete with a cut, which for me is a huge bonus. I don't have a stylist yet whom I can trust with my wigs, so it's critical to me that the pieces come wearable. And I know there's a lot out there about customizing wigs, but for me to be able to just put it on and go is important.
I have this piece in the color rooted nutmeg. I am an ashy medium brown if you can tell. And this leans warmer than my bio hair. In fact, the entire Dimples line does leave me warmer, but I'm extremely ashy, so this is totally normal for me. The rooting, however, on the rooted nutmeg, allows me to blend my bio hair beautifully.
And you'll see me do that in just a second. Okay. Let's take a look at the inside of the cap. So first off, we have this wide monofilament area. Each of these pieces is individually hand-tied. Now, in a lot of wig companies, what you end up with is a parting or even a full top that is hand-tied, but with Dimples.
So we have a fully hand-tied cap. We have Velcro tabs, which I have cinched in quite a bit, and we have these beautiful metal ear tabs. The entire thing is very soft, very stretchy, and very comfortable. It's like a cloud on your head. I will talk about sizing, though, briefly. As you can see, I have this quite a bit of the way in.
I, for reference, have a 21.25-inch circumference, and this fits me a little on the left side. So please do keep that in mind. If you are ordering from Dimples, you're going to want to size down most likely if you are between sizes. As I said, I'm small, and I've got this cinched in all the way, and there's still quite a bit of room in the cap.
Hand-tied does also result in more room. That tends to be the case. Resting creates a tighter cap. But I also have very little bio hair to put in there. So there's not much room needed for me. But if you have more bio hair, you might find this to be perfect. The other feature that it comes with is the scalloped edging on the way.
So you don't even need to cut the lace yourself, which is a nerve-racking thing for many of us. So it's ready to go. We've got the cut, we've got the lace cut, we've got the style cut. We've got beautiful hair. Let's put her on. So when I'm putting her on, I want to make sure that I'm only moving her using the ear tabs.
You do not want to be tugging at the lace where you might damage it. So here she is, beautiful hair color and beautiful softness. What I do need to do right now is make a little bit of an adjustment to the part. So she came with the zigzag part. I did run a comb through it to try to eliminate that part, but I need to do a bit of a better job yet, and I wanted to do it on camera so you can see how I do this.
I'm also going to use a rat tail comb to pull out my bio hair. Now I have curly bio hair, so I do have to straighten it in advance in order to do this. And of course, if you don't have any bio hair, you don't need to worry about it. The ear tabs do come quite far down on me.
So if you don't have my bio hair to blend, you need not worry. There's great coverage here in the front. So to fix up this part exactly the way I want it and get the hair out of my face, I'm going to use a spray bottle of water and get that hair back.
I need to add a little bit more at the front here. I always love doing this bit because I don't have a lot of bio hair that I get to style. So to be able to do this with a wig makes me feel normal. All right. So I went in, sprayed some tap water through the hair, and combed her back.
I could do more if I wanted, but I don't think it's going to be necessary. I think just that little bit is quite enough. I don't need her to be completely off my face. I just want her to be somewhat off my face. I like the look of the hair being a little bit closer. It makes it feel more natural to me, so I'm okay with it like this.
Now what I'm going to do is use a hairdryer to push the hair back while it's still down and get it to stay in the place that I'd like to set. All right. So now I've added some volume and some lift. She's still drying, so she's not completely dry, but she is off my face a bit. And I feel like she just looks so much more natural than when I took her out of the box and she had her box here.
She's ready now for me to add full curls. If I want to add full curls or straighten her completely if I want to do that. I like these loose waves, so I'm pretty happy with her as she is. I think she's ready to go. The only change that I might consider making to her at this point is may pluck some of the hairline where I intend to wear the hair most often.
It's a pretty dense hairline. And while that is very desirable for someone who doesn't have a lot of hair, for me, I think I might like it to be just a little bit wider. But I also have a bone to pick with companies that have too wide of a part. So I like the Dimples make it a little bit denser.
And then you have room to play and pluck individual hairs if that's something that you choose to do. So here she is, a Hera 19.
And I am very much excited to see how she holds up over long-term wear. But I'm sure it's going to be amazing. The hair quality just looks so beautiful and I know that the company stands firmly behind their products and their pieces. They only do a handful of things and they aim to do that handful of things very, very well.
And I think that that is truly what we need in the world is, you know, a master of a few different pieces. And so far this one feels very, very good to me. Oh, there is one more thing I wanted to add. My apologies for having this at the end, but as I've been showing you the hairline, I don't know if you've caught it.
They do not bleach their knots. And this is something that I didn't mean to tell you and I forgot to tell you. So if you look closely, you will see knots in this piece. For me, it's not a big deal. But I did ask James Todd, the CEO, about this because, you know, there's a lot of push to bleach knots in the world of human hair wigs.
And he was pretty adamant about maintaining the integrity of the piece for the long term. So, you know, you're spending good money on this piece for the luxury cap for the high and tight features and sort of go ahead and bleach those knots means that they won't be as long-lasting. The integrity of that hair fiber is weakened by the bleaching.
So for that reason, he has decided not to bleach the knots on his pieces. So if that's something that bothers you, you can either not get the piece or you can use this little hack that I like to use.
But I like to use eyeshadow because I feel like it's longer lasting on the whole. So I just get a little bit of nude-colored face powder and I put it directly on that part line, making sure to wedge it in. And that does a great job of concealing the knots and creating what I feel is quite a natural part.
So there's a little hack for you and already you can see it's made such a difference. And truthfully, I don't think anyone's going to be that close to me to ever notice. But if they are, it's a price that I'm willing to pay for a long-lasting quality hairpiece. So thank you, Dimples, for sending this over in exchange for educational content.
I hope that you all check out Dimples. If you have any questions, please drop them below. I will do my best to answer, and if I don't have an answer, I will find an answer for you. I also have a coloring for all of their room hair colors, so I'm happy to take a video for any color that you would like to see help you to navigate that color world.
Because it can be a tricky one for sure when you're spending big money on hair. And I wish you all the best of luck in your hair loss journey and in your wig-finding journeys.
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Beyond the Head Start" today featured a narrative that intertwines the complexities of life with the simplicity of a solution. Kayla, our esteemed guest, brings a story that transcends the usual discourse about hair loss solutions, intertwining it with personal growth and resilience.
Embracing the Extreme
Kayla's tale began in the adrenaline-fueled world of extreme sports. Her dedication to rock climbing, skiing, and mountain biking defined not just her leisure time but her identity. However, the physical toll of these sports was significant. Injuries such as a ruptured ankle ligament and a torn labrum in her shoulder became transformative experiences, leading to unexpected challenges, including substantial hair loss.
Confronted with hair loss, Kayla embarked on a quest for normalcy. Her initial experiences with wigs were disheartening, as they failed to capture the essence of her natural hair. This led her to the world of hair toppers, a discovery that piqued her curiosity and prompted extensive research. Her journey was marked by consultations with specialists and following the advice of online influencers.
Kayla's relentless search eventually led her to Dimples, a brand that resonated with her need for naturalness and comfort. This brand provided not just a product but a gateway to reclaiming her confidence and self-identity.
For Kayla, the adoption of hair toppers transcended aesthetic appeal. It was a journey of reclamation - a pathway to regain the self-confidence that had been eroded by her physical challenges. Her aim was not to transform but to preserve her identity despite the adversity she faced.
Despite the setbacks from her injuries, Kayla's story is one of resilience. She remained active and engaged, finding innovative ways to adapt her lifestyle. Her experiences reflect the human spirit's capacity to find joy and satisfaction in overcoming life's challenges.
Kayla's challenges intersected intriguingly with her professional life. Running a software development business specializing in data conversions, she often found herself working long hours. This demanding career added another layer of complexity to her search for a suitable hair loss solution.
Kayla's in-depth exploration of hair toppers involved a keen understanding of their construction and design. This journey transformed her into an informed advocate for high-quality, hand-tied hair toppers, known for their comfort and natural appearance.
A significant aspect of Kayla's journey was the evolving partnership with her hairstylist. Together, they ventured into new territories of hair care, experimenting with coloring and cutting techniques. This collaboration underlines the importance of professional guidance in the quest for the right hair solution.
Kayla's insights into choosing the appropriate topper are invaluable. She emphasized the significance of lighter shades for coloring flexibility, understanding cap construction, and finding the right hair density. These considerations are crucial for anyone stepping into the world of hair toppers.
Kayla's narrative is a profound reminder of human adaptability. Confronting physical injuries and hair loss, she discovered ways to not only cope but to thrive. Her story goes beyond hair toppers, highlighting the journey of facing life's challenges and finding solutions that affirm one’s identity.
As we concluded this segment of the interview, it was evident that Kayla's story is a powerful testament to perseverance, self-care, and the transformative impact of finding the right solution. Her experiences serve as a beacon of hope and guidance for many who face similar challenges.
Kayla's story serves as a testament to embracing change with confidence. Her experiences offer lessons in adaptability, showing that determination and exploration can lead to solutions that foster personal growth and self-expression.
Kayla's experience with hair toppers is more than a tale of addressing hair loss; it's a narrative of rediscovery and affirmation of identity. Her journey encourages others to explore innovative solutions and embrace their true selves, regardless of life's challenges.
As Kayla continues her journey, she stands as a symbol of strength and adaptability. Her story inspires others to explore and embrace their authentic selves, finding beauty and confidence in the face of adversity.
Unraveling the Technicalities of Hair Toppers with Kayla
During the next segment of our insightful interview with Kayla, we delved into the technical aspects of hair toppers and wigs, discussing the intricacies of hair length, base construction, and customization. Kayla's journey with hair toppers is not just about finding a solution for hair loss; it's about understanding the technical details that make a significant difference in the final look and feel of the topper.
The Importance of 'Return Hairs' and Length Consideration
One key aspect that Kayla and I discussed was the concept of 'return hairs' in hand-tied toppers. With a machine-made weft, a 14-inch topper is uniform in length throughout. However, in a hand-tied topper, the raw hair length starts longer, say 17 to 19 inches, to accommodate the hand-tying process. This extra length, essential for tying the knot, is what creates return hairs, usually around 3 to 5 inches long, contributing to the overall natural look of the topper.
Focus on the Inside, Not Just the Outside
Kayla highlighted a crucial point that many consumers often overlook - the importance of focusing on the inside of the topper, not just the outside. Examining the base construction, the hair quality, and how these elements come together is essential for choosing the right topper. This level of scrutiny is something Kayla compares to what hair replacement studio owners do - a thorough inspection that goes beyond the superficial.
Investment in Quality for Authenticity
Kayla's philosophy is simple yet profound - if you're going to wear something regularly and want it to represent your true self, investing in quality is non-negotiable. This approach is akin to choosing a wardrobe; it's better to have one perfect outfit that you love rather than a bunch of mediocre ones that don't quite fit who you are. The same principle applies to hair toppers - quality pieces offer a more authentic and comfortable experience.
Apples to Apples Comparison
When comparing different toppers, Kayla emphasizes the importance of comparing 'apples to apples' - looking at hair type, hair length, and base construction in conjunction. This approach helps in understanding why certain toppers may be more expensive and ensures you are making an informed choice based on comparable features.
Exploring Hand-Tied and Machine-Made Variants
Kayla and I also touched upon the differences between all hand-tied and partially hand-tied toppers. While fully hand-tied bases offer unparalleled naturalness and comfort, partially hand-tied variants combine these features with practicality. However, as Kayla pointed out, there's a need for more information on styling, coloring, and cutting these different types of toppers, especially considering the textural differences compared to natural hair.
Styling and Personalizing Toppers
Through Kayla's experience, it's evident that personalizing a topper to fit one's style and preference is a journey in itself. From choosing the right cap size and hair type to working with a stylist for coloring and cutting, each step is crucial in achieving a look that feels 'just like me.' Kayla's commitment to finding the perfect topper is a testament to her determination to maintain her identity despite hair loss.
Hair Toppers: A Journey of Learning and Sharing
In the final part of our engaging conversation with Kayla, we ventured into the practicalities of styling and maintaining hair toppers. Her meticulous approach to selecting, customizing, and caring for hair toppers reveals a wealth of knowledge gained over years of exploration and experimentation.
Styling Insights and Hairdresser Collaboration
Kayla shared her experience with thinning out toppers for a more natural look. She emphasized the skill of a good stylist in achieving this without leaving the hair spiky or unnatural. Her stylist's expertise in layering and blending has played a crucial role in ensuring the topper integrates seamlessly with Kayla's natural hair.
Empowering Others Through Knowledge Sharing
Kayla's journey has not only been about her own discovery but also about empowering others. Her stylist, now well-versed in hair toppers, shares this knowledge with other clients, helping more women discover solutions for hair loss. This ripple effect of sharing information is pivotal, especially in the context of increased hair loss due to stressors like COVID and childbirth, as Kayla noted.
Kayla's Tips for New Topper Wearers
As our conversation drew to a close, Kayla offered invaluable advice for those new to wearing toppers:
A Symbol of Resilience and Authenticity
Kayla's journey with hair toppers is more than just about addressing hair loss; it symbolizes resilience, authenticity, and the pursuit of self-confidence. Her thorough approach, from researching to styling, demonstrates a commitment to maintaining her sense of self despite life's challenges.
Conclusion: Embracing Change with Confidence
Kayla's story is a testament to embracing change with confidence and a reminder that the journey to finding the right hair solution is unique for everyone. Her experiences provide valuable insights for anyone navigating the world of hair toppers, highlighting the importance of research, customization, and the courage to embrace one's true self.
Kayla's Favorite Dimples Topper
Clio 12 S | Remy Human Hair Topper (Hand-Made)
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Welcome to an insightful journey into the world of hair toppers, guided by the expert knowledge of Deborah, a renowned stylist with a wealth of experience in hairpiece styling and maintenance. In this comprehensive discussion, hosted by James, we delve into the intricacies of choosing, caring for, and styling both human hair and synthetic hair toppers. Whether you're a newcomer to the world of hairpieces or an experienced user seeking to enhance your skills, this blog provides a treasure trove of valuable tips and professional secrets. From understanding how toppers behave right out of the box to mastering the art of custom styling and dealing with common challenges, Deborah's advice is a guiding light. Join us as we explore the transformative power of hair toppers and learn how to achieve that perfect, natural look with confidence and ease.
The interview with Deborah provides invaluable insights into the world of hair toppers. From choosing the right product to styling and maintenance, her expert advice is a treasure trove for anyone looking to enhance their appearance with hair toppers. With the right techniques and products, achieving a natural, comfortable look is entirely possible.
Welcome to an inspiring conversation with Emily, a remarkable woman who has embarked on a journey of self-discovery and self-care. In this heartfelt interview, Emily opens up about her experiences with hair loss, postpartum challenges, and the importance of prioritizing self-worth. Join us as we delve into her story, filled with ups and downs, resilience, and the power of self-love.
Emily's journey begins with a warm welcome to the show, where she reflects on her modeling experiences and the transformation she has undergone over the past year. It's a testament to her growth and the strength she's found within herself.
Emily's path takes an emotional turn as she shares her experience with postpartum challenges. With three beautiful daughters to care for, she faced a whirlwind of emotions, hormonal changes, and self-doubt. Her story serves as a reminder that postpartum struggles are common and deserve open discussion.
Amidst the challenges, Emily discovered the importance of self-worth and self-care. She talks about the tools and strategies she implemented, like daily affirmations, to help her maintain a positive mindset. These practices served as a lifeline, helping her regain her confidence and sense of self.
In a moment of impulse, Emily decided to take a bold step and shave her head. She shares the liberating experience of embracing her baldness and the support she received from her husband and sister. This pivotal moment symbolizes her journey of self-acceptance.
Emily begins by describing the moment she decided to buzz her head. It was an impulsive choice, a gathering with friends, and the simple desire to break free from the burden of hair loss that had been plaguing her. The decision to take this bold step marked the beginning of a transformative journey.
As we delve deeper, we learn about the mix of emotions that accompanied her buzzed head. She shares her excitement, the exhilaration of feeling the wind on her bare scalp, and the joy that came with embracing this new look. Yet, there were moments of doubt and uncertainty, questioning whether this choice was the right one.
Following her buzzed head, Emily stumbled upon a revelation - hair toppers. She had no idea that such a solution existed and was intrigued by the idea of having hair again, not as extensions but as a way to address the specific thinning on top of her head.
Emily confides in those close to her about her decision to explore hair toppers. Initially, she receives mixed reactions, with her mother expressing concern and apprehension. This prompts her to reflect on the significance of seeking approval from others and the importance of remaining true to oneself.
As the interview unfolds, we gain insight into Emily's journey towards self-acceptance and self-worth. She shares her perspective on the need to validate oneself, irrespective of external opinions or societal pressures. Her self-confidence becomes her guiding light, illuminating the path toward self-discovery.
Emily emphasizes the importance of setting healthy standards for self-worth, especially for the younger generation. She discusses the significance of instilling self-assurance in her children, teaching them that beauty lies within and is not defined by external appearances.
In this captivating interview, we witness a powerful transformation. Emily's decision to buzz her head marked the beginning of a journey that ultimately led to the discovery of her true self-worth. Her story serves as a reminder that we should prioritize self-acceptance and confidence over seeking approval from others. In the end, it's not about how we look; it's about how we feel within our own skin.
Transitioning to wearing a topper can be a learning process. Emily acknowledged that mastering the art of using a topper can take time. It may take a few weeks or even months to become proficient. She emphasized the importance of not waiting for perfection before wearing it in public. Each person's journey is unique, and some may find comfort in wearing their topper at home to gradually build confidence.
Emily shared her daily routine with toppers, describing how she takes it off when she comes home, sometimes leaving it on a chair. She humorously compared it to a "little puppy" from afar. This ritual serves to normalize the presence of toppers in her life, making it an integral part of her daily routine.
Emily pointed out the lack of discussion around toppers, even among celebrities who wear them. While makeup is openly acknowledged and praised, toppers often remain concealed. The stigma surrounding hair loss and the use of toppers prevents open conversations about this topic.
The interview also touched upon an old industry joke that highlights the subtle nature of toppers. It's a testament to the effectiveness of well-blended toppers that seamlessly blend with natural hair. The conversation explored various aspects of toppers, from different base materials to styling techniques.
Selecting the right color for a topper can be daunting. Emily offered practical advice for those struggling with color choices, emphasizing that a slight mismatch is not a significant concern. She recommended going slightly darker if uncertain, as it's easier to blend, and the minor color difference won't be noticeable.
Emily shared her insights on maintaining toppers. She stressed the importance of not overwashing toppers, as frequent washing can reduce their lifespan. She recommended washing only when necessary and using conditioning products to keep the hair in good condition. Emily also discussed the use of oils and conditioners to enhance the topper's longevity and maintain its texture.
Styling toppers can require some effort, especially when freshly unboxed. Emily advised allowing for some time and practice to style toppers effectively. She also mentioned the importance of recognizing that the hair might change its texture after washing, and understanding this can ease any disappointment.
To conclude, Emily shared three empowering tips for individuals who are new to toppers or facing hair loss:
Emily reminds us that beauty comes in many forms, and confidence can be found even in the face of adversity. Hair loss may be a part of your journey, but it does not define you. Embrace your uniqueness, and remember that you are not alone on this path to self-acceptance and confidence.
Clio 14 L French | Remy Human Hair Topper (Hand-Made)
]]>In a heartfelt and candid conversation, we dive into Kristina's inspiring journey of living with alopecia. From her teenage years marked by bullying and the stress of her stepmom's illness to her journey towards self-acceptance, Kristina shares her experiences, challenges, and triumphs. Join us as we unravel her remarkable story of resilience and growth.
Meeting Kristina on Zoom
A Unique First Meeting
At the start of our conversation, we meet Kristina on Zoom, and it's evident that this is the first time she and James have seen each other. The conversation begins with a warm exchange of greetings.
A Transcontinental Connection
Kristina reveals that she's currently residing in Devon, U.K., while James is in Los Angeles, setting the stage for an international conversation.
The Unusual Beginning
Building Connections on Instagram
Kristina opens up about her alopecia journey, which spans 23 years. She shares that it wasn't until this year that she began feeling comfortable with her hair loss. She stumbled upon Instagram's alopecia community and decided to give it a try. This decision would significantly impact her life and outlook on alopecia.
A Journey of Transformation
Rediscovering Self-Esteem
Kristina's experience on Instagram has been transformative. She highlights how her interactions with the supportive alopecia community have changed her perspective on her condition. It's been an incredible journey of self-discovery and newfound confidence.
Bold and Beautiful
Embracing Baldness on Instagram
Kristina shares that she began showing herself boldly with her alopecia on Instagram just three months ago. This was a significant step for her after two decades of concealing her hair loss.
The Shocking Timeline
22 Years of Alopecia*
James expresses amazement at Kristina's youthful appearance and asks about the timeline of her alopecia. Kristina reveals that she's 38 years old and has been dealing with alopecia since she was 15.
The Gradual Unraveling
Alopecia's Slow Onset
Kristina describes how her hair loss didn't happen suddenly; rather, it was a gradual process. She explains that it began with her hair slowly thinning and gradually falling out in small patches.
Bullying Takes a Toll
Coping with Bullying
The conversation shifts to Kristina's teenage years, marked by bullying in school. She reveals that the bullying had a profound impact on her life, both emotionally and physically.
A Sister's Concern
The Turning Point*
Kristina recalls the moment when her sister noticed her hair loss. This revelation served as a turning point as Kristina began to acknowledge her condition.
The Bullying Begins
Early Signs of Trouble*
Kristina details that the bullying had started a year prior to her hair loss becoming noticeable. She explains how the bullying escalated and eventually led her to avoid certain classes and school days.
A Bully's Motivation
Unraveling the Bully's Intentions*
Reflecting on her past experiences, Kristina speculates that jealousy played a significant role in her bully's actions. Another young lady at her school had a partner, who later went out with Kristina, this likely fueled the resentment and cruelty. Kristina asked her father for help. Her father spoke to the school headmaster, but nothing was done to stop the bullying except, to allow Kristina to take less classes (so she didn’t need to be in the same class as the bully).
Reconnecting with the Bully
Unexpected Reunion*
Kristina reveals that her main bully added her on Facebook a few years ago. She chose not to accept the request, leaving her curious about the intentions behind the outreach.
Dealing with Stress
Coping with Stress and Trauma*
The conversation delves into the stressful events that coincided with Kristina's alopecia onset. She discusses how her stepmother's terminal cancer diagnosis added to the emotional burden she was carrying as a teenager.
Caring for a Loved One
A Teenager's Responsibility*
Kristina shares the challenges of caring for her terminally ill stepmother and describes the emotional toll it took on her.
Facing Alopecia and Seeking Help
Seeking Answers from Professionals*
At 17 or 18, Kristina decided it was time to seek professional help for her alopecia. She shares her experience consulting with a dermatologist who delivered the diagnosis and explained that there was no cure.
The Shocking Diagnosis
Coming to Terms with the Permanent*
Kristina opens up about the emotional impact of hearing that her alopecia might be permanent. She talks about the initial disbelief and her hope that it might resolve on its own.
The Search for a Cure
Exploring Treatment Options*
Kristina briefly discusses the available treatment options, including medications that suppress the immune system, but explains why she chose not to pursue them.
Kristina's story is one of strength, resilience, and self-discovery. From her early experiences with bullying to her journey of self-acceptance and connection with the alopecia community on Instagram, Kristina's story is an inspiring testament to the power of embracing one's unique journey and finding support along the way.
The Diagnosis: A Shocking Revelation The First Meeting with a Dermatologist The journey begins with a visit to a dermatologist. The shock of hearing the words, "There's no solution. Your hair isn't coming back," reverberated in her mind. Discover how this brutal honesty was a surprising blessing.
Exploring Treatment Options Beyond Steroid Injections Alopecia often leads individuals to explore various treatment options, including steroid injections. Learn about the alternatives considered and why one particular prescription drug was chosen.
Immunosuppressants: A Glimpse into Treatment Understanding the Immunosuppressant Dive into the details of the immunosuppressant drug prescribed and its role in treating alopecia. Gain insights into the decision-making process behind opting for or against this treatment.
The Emotional Journey Coping with the Diagnosis The emotional impact of an alopecia diagnosis can be profound. Discover how the initial shock and disbelief gradually gave way to a deeper understanding of the condition's severity.
Isolation and Lack of Community The Pre-Internet Era In a world before widespread internet access and social media, finding a support network for alopecia was challenging. Explore the isolation felt and how the absence of a community added to her struggles.
A Supportive Partner Love Through Thick and Thin Meet the supportive husband who stood by her side through thick and thin. Learn how their relationship blossomed amidst the challenges of alopecia.
The Journey Continues Leaving Home and Finding Love A change of location and a chance encounter led to significant life changes. Explore how moving away from home and meeting her husband played pivotal roles in Kristina's journey.
Wigging Out Embracing Wigs and Rediscovering Confidence Delve into the turning point in her journey when she decided to try wigs. Find out how this decision allowed her to regain a sense of confidence and control over her appearance.
The Unseen Struggles Understanding the Value of "Hidden" Hair Discover the unexpected challenges that come with losing hair from less obvious areas of the body, such as eyebrows, arms, and more. Gain insight into the importance of hair we often take for granted.
Alopecia is more than just physical hair loss; it's a journey filled with emotional ups and downs. Through the eyes of Kristina, we've witnessed the shock of diagnosis, the quest for solutions, and the enduring support of loved ones. This personal account reminds us of the strength and resilience it takes to navigate the challenges of living with alopecia.
A Look Back at Changing Beauty Trends
Rediscovering Beauty: The Evolution of Eyebrows
In our conversation, Kristina mentions the trend of bleaching eyebrows to make them appear non-existent. We explore the fascinating evolution of beauty trends and how embracing unique looks has become a symbol of self-expression in today's world.
Unveiling the Hardships of Alopecia
The Burden of Alopecia: A Lifelong Struggle
Kristina opens up about her experience with alopecia, a condition that causes hair loss. We discuss the emotional toll it took on her and how she coped with societal beauty standards.
Facing Adversity Head-On
Two Decades of Struggle: Alopecia and Beyond
In this segment, we delve into the challenging periods of her life, including the emotional toll of bullying in her teenage years. She candidly shares her experiences of living with alopecia and how it shaped her identity.
A Journey of Unexpected Twists
From Motherhood to Open-Heart Surgery
The conversation takes a dramatic turn as we explore her life-changing experiences in her late teens and early twenties. At the tender age of 19, she faced open-heart surgery while being a young mother. We discuss the challenges of dealing with major health issues while raising a child.
A Resilient Spirit Shines Through
Embracing Motherhood and Marriage Amidst Adversity
Despite the hurdles, Kristina's story takes a heartwarming twist as she talks about motherhood, marriage, and her enduring spirit. We discover how she managed to find love and start a family amidst adversity.
A Remarkable Timeline of Transformation
From Surgery to Success: A Five-Year Journey
We recap her extraordinary journey, highlighting the whirlwind of events that occurred in a short five-year period, from motherhood to open-heart surgery, and how she emerged stronger.
Inspiring Gratitude and Positivity
Finding Strength in Adversity
Kristina reflects on her life's challenges and shares her perspective on gratitude and positivity. She believes that every experience, no matter how difficult, has contributed to the person she is today.
A Hidden Scar and Unspoken Courage
A Remarkable Scar: A Hidden Tale
We delve into the story behind the prominent scar that Kristina bears as a result of her surgeries. Despite its visibility, few have asked her about it, highlighting the strength she carries within her.
Joining the Alopecia Community
Connecting with Others: A New Chapter
In recent times, Kristina has started sharing her story within the alopecia community on Instagram. We discuss her journey towards opening up and connecting with others who face similar challenges.
A Journey That Continues
Life After Surgery: Pursuing Education and Giving Back
The conversation closes on a positive note as we explore her educational pursuits and her desire to give back to the medical field that once saved her life.
A Life Well Lived
In this powerful and moving conversation, we've witnessed the remarkable journey of a woman who has overcome adversity with unwavering strength and resilience. Her story serves as an inspiration to us all, a testament to the incredible human capacity to thrive in the face of life's greatest challenges.
In a candid and heartwarming conversation, Kristina opens up about her journey with alopecia, her struggles with self-esteem, and the strength she found in vulnerability. Join us as we explore the various aspects of Kristina's life, from her love for books to her wig collection, and learn about her experiences with different therapies.
Finding Inspiration on Instagram
Discovering Cheryl's Inspiring Journey
In a world dominated by curated images of perfection, finding genuine inspiration can be challenging. For Kristina, Instagram served as a platform where she discovered Cheryl, a beacon of strength who openly shared her journey with hair loss. Cheryl's vulnerability in showcasing her baldness resonated deeply with Kristina and inspired her in her own journey.
A Supportive Community
Instagram also introduced Kristina to a community of people who understood her struggles and provided unwavering support. She found solace in knowing that she was not alone and that countless others shared her experiences. Kristina believes that finding this community sooner could have expedited her self-acceptance process.
The Battle Within: Managing Depression and Anxiety
Teenage Struggles
Kristina reflects on her teenage years, which were marred by severe depression due to her hair loss. She emphasizes how challenging it was to cope with the emotional turmoil during that period.
Seeking Help
Over time, Kristina sought professional help through various therapeutic approaches like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). She discusses how CBT taught her to reframe negative thought patterns and develop healthier coping mechanisms. Managing anxiety remains an ongoing journey for her, but she now considers it manageable.
The Power of CBT
Kristina explains that CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy) focuses on changing thought processes and finding positive aspects in challenging situations. It has been instrumental in helping her rewire her mind and shift from a negative to a more optimistic outlook.
Rewiring the Mind: Overcoming Negativity
Changing Thought Patterns
Kristina and James delve into the concept of negative thinking and how it can become a default mode. They discuss how CBT helps individuals identify these negative patterns and rewire their thought processes to focus on positivity and resilience.
The Shift Towards Positivity
They highlight the profound transformation that occurs when negativity diminishes, and individuals can appreciate life's small joys and wonders. Overcoming negativity is a monumental task, but it brings about a significant shift in one's perspective.
Embracing Vulnerability: A Journey to Self-Acceptance
A Moment of Liberation
Kristina shares a pivotal moment in her life when she decided to reveal her hair loss to a close-knit group of friends during her university days. The simplicity of the setting, an elevator ride, and their genuine reactions provided her with a profound sense of liberation. It marked a crucial step towards self-acceptance.
The Wig Collection
Kristina's wig collection, which consists of around ten wigs, showcases her journey of self-expression. She explains how her wigs vary from synthetic ones suitable for work to hand-tied wigs, which she prefers for comfort.
Life Lessons from Books
Aside from her journey with alopecia, Kristina is an avid book lover who admires the fantasy works of authors like Brandon Sanderson. Her love for books has opened doors to connect with others and even inspired her journey with wigs.
The Perils of Plagiarism
Kristina discusses a recent Instagram controversy involving a wig company that plagiarized content from other reputable brands. The incident highlights the importance of authenticity and integrity in the age of social media.
Closing Thoughts
Kristina's story is a testament to the power of vulnerability, self-acceptance, and the impact of sharing one's journey. Her experiences with alopecia, depression, and anxiety have shaped her into a resilient and compassionate individual who continues to inspire others. Kristina's journey reminds us all that embracing vulnerability can lead to personal growth, connection, and positive change in the world.
Introduction:
In the world of beauty and style, there are countless professionals who work diligently to help people look and feel their best. But today, we're going to introduce you to someone truly special. Meet Tracy, a stylist with a unique focus on toppers and wigs, whose journey in the beauty industry has been nothing short of remarkable. In this blog, we'll delve into Tracy's story, her passion for helping those experiencing hair loss, and the challenges and triumphs that have defined her career.
A Unique Stylist Emerges
Beyond the Usual Hairdresser
- Tracy's introduction to the world of beauty
- Her decision to specialize in toppers and wigs
- The distinctiveness of her skillset
The Beginnings of a Lifelong Passion
Tracy's Early Years in Cosmetology*
- Tracy's origins in Hillsboro, New Hampshire
- Her cosmetology school experience in Concord, New Hampshire
- Unveiling her childhood passion for hairstyling
From Salon Work to a Unique Opportunity
Exploring New Horizons*
- Tracy's journey to Iowa and Omaha with her family
- The transition from working in a salon to managing one
- The unexpected twist that led Tracy to specialize in wigs and toppers
The Power of Empathy in Styling
Making a Difference Beyond Looks*
- The emotional impact of hair loss on individuals
- Tracy's decision to undergo head shaving to empathize with clients
- The emotional journey of helping women regain their confidence
Expertise and Ongoing Learning
The Importance of Continuous Education*
- The evolution of Tracy's skills over the years
- Specialized training in wig styling and coloring
- The dynamic nature of hair and the need for adaptability
The Rarity of Tracy's Skills
A Stylist Like No Other*
- Recognizing the scarcity of stylists specializing in wigs and toppers
- The challenges consumers face when seeking specialized services
- Tracy's invaluable role in the beauty industry
The Tornado and a Heartbreaking Loss**
Facing Adversity with Strength*
- Tracy's encounter with a devastating tornado in Iowa
- The traumatic loss of her beloved dogs during the storm
- The resilience and emotional toll of that difficult period
Tracy's Enduring Impact**
In the world of hairstyling, Tracy's journey stands as a testament to the power of empathy, resilience, and continuous learning. Her unique specialization in wigs and toppers has allowed her to make a profound difference in the lives of countless individuals facing hair loss. Tracy's story serves as a reminder that in the beauty industry, true beauty lies not only in appearance but also in the compassion and expertise of those who dedicate their careers to helping others look and feel their best.
In life, our paths often lead us to unexpected destinations. Tracy's journey is a testament to the twists and turns that life can take, from providing support to cancer patients to finding love in the most unexpected places. Join us as we explore Tracy's remarkable story of self-discovery, resilience, and embracing the beauty of individuality.
A Touching Encounter with Gratitude Unforgettable Moments of Support
Tracy's journey began with a heartwarming encounter that left a lasting impact. Meeting a woman undergoing chemotherapy, Tracy provided support during a challenging time. Their connection was a reminder of the profound impact a simple act of kindness can have.
Unexpected Reunion After a Decade The Power of Making a Difference
Years passed, and Tracy's kindness didn't fade into oblivion. A chance encounter in an Omaha store led to an emotional reunion with the woman she had helped a decade ago. Tracy's heartwarming story highlights the enduring impact of genuine compassion and support.
A New Chapter: Yoga Girl Meets Fit Dad Rediscovering Oneself
After a divorce, Tracy embarked on a journey of self-improvement and self-discovery. Yoga became her solace, leading her to a new chapter in life. It was during this time that she crossed paths with "Fit Dad," setting the stage for a new adventure.
Love Blossoms: Fit Dad and Yoga Girl A Unique Connection
Tracy and Fit Dad's connection was sparked by a simple online wink. As they began dating, their relationship blossomed. Their shared interests and willingness to embrace new experiences drew them closer, leading to a unique and loving bond.
The Marriage Journey: From Delay to Celebration Love Triumphs Over Adversity
The COVID-19 pandemic posed challenges to their wedding plans, but Tracy and Fit Dad's determination prevailed. They refused to let external circumstances dictate their happiness and decided to tie the knot, proving that love can conquer any obstacle.
A Brave Revelation: Sharing the Secret Acceptance and Understanding
Wearing hair is a personal choice for Tracy, and she chose to reveal her secret to Fit Dad. Their journey of understanding and acceptance illuminated the importance of open communication and embracing one another's unique qualities.
Tracy's journey is a testament to the power of compassion, resilience, and the beauty of embracing one's true self. It reminds us that life's twists and turns can lead to unexpected moments of love and connection. Tracy's story serves as a source of inspiration for all, encouraging us to be kind, open-minded, and unapologetically ourselves.
Title: Embracing Change: A Journey into Wigs and Toppers
The Transition
No one is going to know that you have that on. You are going to feel like everyone knows because it's different, it's new, it's you don't have the confidence to wear it out yet and feel like it's part of you. It takes it takes time for a hairpiece or a wig to become part of who you are. And sometimes it takes months.
Have you ever considered trying out a wig or a hairpiece? If so, you're not alone in your hesitations and concerns. Transitioning into wearing hairpieces can be a transformative journey, both in appearance and self-confidence. In this blog, we'll explore the emotional and practical aspects of embracing a new look, inspired by real-life stories and experiences.
A Personal Transformation
Sometimes it takes a week, sometimes it takes three days.
Adapting to a new look doesn't follow a strict timeline. For some, the transition can be swift, while for others, it might take a little longer. We'll delve into the personal experiences of individuals who have taken varying lengths of time to feel comfortable and confident with their new hairpieces.
The Power of Self-Expression
"Taking Off My Hair" - Breaking Stereotypes
One of the most empowering moments in this journey is learning to embrace your new look unapologetically. We'll explore how some individuals have confidently referred to their hairpieces as simply "hair" and discuss the importance of breaking down societal stereotypes surrounding wigs and toppers.
Understanding Hair Loss*
Different Types of Hair Loss - More Than Meets the Eye
Hair loss is a diverse and complex issue, and there are various reasons why both women and men turn to wigs and toppers. We'll delve into the different types of hair loss, including chemotherapy-induced hair loss, alopecia, and trichotillomania, shedding light on the unique challenges each type presents.
Trichotillomania - A Hidden Struggle*
Trichotillomania: Coping with the Uncontrollable
Trichotillomania, a condition characterized by compulsive hair-pulling, often goes unnoticed and unspoken about. We'll explore the emotional impact of this disorder, shedding light on the anxiety and embarrassment many individuals face. Real-life stories will help us understand the complexities of living with trichotillomania and the potential relief wigs and hairpieces can offer.
Supporting One Another*
A Safe Space for Sharing
Creating a supportive environment for those experiencing hair loss is crucial. We'll discuss the importance of empathy and understanding when interacting with individuals who may be struggling with their hair loss. Sharing stories and experiences can foster a sense of community and encourage those in need to seek help and support.
Leading by Example*
Inspiration from Those Who've Walked the Path
Lastly, we'll draw inspiration from individuals like Tracy, who bravely shaved her head to gain a deeper understanding of wearing wigs and toppers. Her journey not only enhanced her expertise but also provided a powerful message of support and empowerment to others facing hair loss.
Embracing Change with Confidence*
Becoming Your Best Self
Embracing a new look through wigs and toppers can be a life-changing experience. As we conclude this journey, we'll emphasize the importance of self-confidence and the positive impact that accepting and embracing change can have on your life.
Join us as we explore the emotional and practical facets of this transformative journey into wigs and toppers. Discover the strength and empowerment that come from embracing change and becoming your best self.
Title: Navigating Hair Loss: Finding Confidence and Support
Insights from Tracy - A Hair Loss Expert
Hair loss can be a deeply personal and emotional journey for many individuals. Whether it's due to genetics, medical treatments, stress, or any other reason, losing your hair can have a significant impact on your self-esteem and confidence. In this blog post, we'll delve into the world of hair loss, its emotional toll, and the importance of seeking support and expert advice.
The Emotional Impact of Hair Loss
Journey: From Balding to Confidence
Hair loss can be an emotionally challenging experience. Speaker 2 shared their story of how they decided to shave their head after noticing a receding hairline. They recounted feeling self-conscious about their thinning hair and how a bald head brought newfound confidence.
Experimenting with Wigs and Self-Expression
Rock Star in a Wig: Embracing a Different Persona
Speaker 2 further discussed the experience of wearing a wig and how it allowed them to explore different styles and personas. Wigs aren't just about covering hair loss; they can be a tool for self-expression and transformation.
The Connection Between Hair and Confidence
Hair as a Confidence Boost
Both speakers emphasized the crucial link between hair and confidence. They shared their experiences of feeling more self-assured when wearing certain hairstyles, whether wigs or natural hair. It's important to recognize that it's not about vanity but about regaining confidence.
The Struggles of Hair Loss
Hiding Behind Hats: Coping with Thinning Hair
Speaker 2 highlighted the struggles many women face when dealing with thinning hair. It can lead to self-isolation, avoidance of social situations, and a lack of confidence. The emotional toll of hair loss should not be underestimated.
Transitioning to Wigs
Accepting the Transition: From Toppers to Wigs
Speaker 1 and Speaker 2 discussed scenarios where individuals initially resisted the idea of wearing wigs but eventually embraced them. Transitioning from hair toppers to full wigs can be a significant decision, and it often involves a process of acceptance and adjustment.
Subheading 6: Finding Support and Education
The Importance of Education and Support
Both speakers stressed the importance of education and support in the journey of dealing with hair loss. Speaker 2 highlighted the role of hairstylists in helping customers find the right solutions. Seeking professional guidance, like dimples, can make a significant difference.
Tracy's Top Three Tips
Tracy's Advice for Those New to Hair Loss
Tracy provided three valuable tips for those who are new to hair loss:
Conclusion
Hair loss is a journey that millions of individuals worldwide navigate daily. It can be emotionally taxing, but with the right support, education, and the choice of the right solutions, it's possible to regain confidence and feel like yourself again. Remember, you're not alone in this journey, and there's help available for you. Embrace your unique beauty and style, and let your confidence shine.
Tracy favorite Dimples Wigs and Toppers she wears almost daily:
]]>I don't get much sleep. I'm just good at multitasking. That's what it comes down to—being able to manage various tasks efficiently. I've honed this skill as a parent; it's a necessity. Despite the appearance of order in the neatest part where I'm sitting, there's chaos around me, though you can't see that.
So, yeah, you just handle what needs to be done and carry on. Most people liken me to a duck. You know, like ducks—they appear calm on the water's surface, but underneath, their legs are paddling furiously. I think that's a perfect description.
I'd had my third daughter, um, and she was about 11 months old. I felt like I'd been run over—like I was pretty rubbish. I had just come back to work, and my body was just going through a lot due to hormones and everything. I found a bald patch on the side of my head, a completely circular one behind my ear. I didn't panic because when I was pregnant with my second daughter, I experienced anemia and some hair loss during the pregnancy.
I had some medicine then, and everything got better. Everything grew back, so I wasn't too worried. However, I went to the doctor to get some blood tests done. This was just before Christmas. I specifically remember him saying, 'You are not a priority; there's no need to panic. Just schedule an appointment when they can fit you in.' So, I did that, and fortunately, they could see me right away. After the blood tests, we had the Christmas break, and I had a follow-up appointment in the New Year. Within that two-week timeframe, during the holidays, all of my hair had fallen out. Literally, everything. So, I went back to see him wearing a bobble hat because I hadn't bought a wig yet. When I took it off, his face was just in shock.
All I had left were a few crazy, old man-like, wiry bits of hair. The rest had completely gone. I think I just cried in his face; I didn't know what was happening or what was wrong. I feared it was something really serious. In the shower, I would pull the shampoo through my hair, and a clump would come out, thick like a rat's tail. It was a surreal experience. I could see the hole on my scalp where the hair was, but I couldn't feel it. It wasn't painful, just incredibly weird. I tried to stop brushing my hair because every day, my hairbrush was full—completely full of hair. I was shedding everywhere. I tried to wash it less frequently, every other day or so, to minimize the hair loss.
I felt that if I could draw a line at this point, I could manage it. I kept telling myself, 'It's completely out of your control.' The lack of control was causing panic. If it stopped at this point, I thought I could handle it and wear a jaunty scarf for a few weeks. But it didn't stop, and that was the worst part. I always say now to people who talk to me about their hair loss that losing it was far worse than having lost it. The panic of not being able to control it was absolutely horrendous. And once it had all gone, I couldn't have been balder. I had literally lost everything—facial hair, body hair, everything. It was surreal.
The first year was the weirdest. I was quite desperate to find a solution initially—trying lotions, potions, even rubbing nettle soap on my head and dancing naked under a full moon. If someone had suggested it, I would have tried it. It was probably slightly after the first year that I fell more into acceptance. Once I accepted it, I stopped looking for a solution. Trying to control and solve it was stressful, but you can't force your body to comply; it's just doing its own thing.
Yeah, it was a GP, a general practitioner. He had definitely encountered cases like mine before. However, I don't think he expected my hair loss to happen so rapidly. Alopecia presents in various forms, and as I've heard, some people experience rapid hair loss, while others have a slower progression over a year or more, with thinning and fading.
I felt like a bit of an anomaly because my hair loss happened so swiftly. I could sense that the GP was genuinely taken aback. He didn't quite know how to proceed since there wasn't a definitive medical solution. He conducted blood tests, and thankfully, the results indicated that I wasn't facing a life-threatening condition. He had done his due diligence, so to speak. It was then that he referred me to a dermatologist, although even they couldn't offer a concrete solution.
Yeah, exactly. He handed me a printout on alopecia areata, which depicts the circular patchy hair loss. It stuck with me because he was very reassuring, emphasizing that I shouldn't panic over it. The printout even stated, "Worrying may increase hair loss," which, of course, didn't help because, at that point, panic was inevitable. The stress that comes with this panic doesn't aid the situation, you know?
It's challenging to stay calm in such situations, especially when it's all uncharted territory. It hadn't happened before, and it felt like it shouldn't. Nobody immediately reassured me, saying, "It's okay, you're not dying. Here's a lovely wig." It was just sheer panic.
It's because it isn't deemed life-threatening. I think that's why there's so little research that's gone into it on the whole. It's not like being diabetic, which is autoimmune as well, but that can be life-threatening. Other conditions take precedence. Hair, while being way more than just hair, is often perceived as just that. It's very hard for somebody to understand how it impacts every aspect of your life every day.
For instance, when I get a cold, I realize I have no nose hair, and dealing with a cold becomes a challenge. Snot just whizzes out of my nose, like a sudden 'nose condensation.' No eyelashes mean constantly dealing with debris in my eyes, especially when wearing contact lenses. Hay fever becomes a bigger hassle because everything just goes right into my system. These little things people initially overlook when they say, "It's only hair."
The absence of something makes you realize its importance. After five and a half years, I now experience unexpected changes in hair growth. Armpit hair, big toe hair, and some leg hair appear randomly. However, I still cannot grow eyelashes or eyebrows, which would be more useful.
No, I found all my pregnancies difficult. It physically slowed me down, which was frustrating. I didn't enjoy pregnancy like some people do. I found it frustrating that I couldn't put my shoes on properly. I got tired quickly. I had morning sickness for the first few months with all three. My second daughter, I, was anemic during that pregnancy, which took a toll on me. So, I did find a couple of patches during that time.
Yeah, it's the lack of control because you know it shouldn't happen. We have hair for reasons. Also, I struggle to regulate my body temperature without enough hair. It's a weird sensation. Losing hair makes you think about it constantly because it's physically coming out. It's a horrible feeling because you can't stop it.
Absolutely. I tried anything and everything—lotions, potions, hair growth serums, sprays, shampoos, even minoxidil. I was desperate to stop it. But it just wanted to fall, and it did painlessly. It was as if the hair had already made up its mind.
Yes, exactly. The wig discovery was a significant step before acceptance. It bridged the gap for me when I wasn't ready to be bald yet. I associated wigs with illness and older people initially, but they became a solution that allowed me to carry on with life.
Absolutely. I initially saw them as a temporary fix, thinking my hair would grow back quickly. I couldn't stop my life, so the wig became a temporary solution. It allowed me to carry on with my responsibilities.
Oh, yeah, yeah. No, absolutely. Like I think the most expensive wig, I won't discuss brands, but the most expensive wig I had was about 6,000 pounds worth. And yeah, fresh out the box, it would look just as wiggy as a, uh, 2000-pound wig, or 1000-pound wig, or, or less. It just, yeah, wigs. You need to, I think, as well.
Sometimes people receive the wig, and they're actually, um, almost afraid of it. It's like this entity that comes out of the box, and they, um, they are too scared. They're scared they're going to break it because, obviously, they're not familiar. Um, and they're scared to kind of rough it up a bit, really. And I think that the, you know, it's really important to, um, you know, make it your own because I really believe that people, um, should have a positive wig experience, because actually, if, if you're, if you've lost your hair for whatever reason, it's traumatic enough, and then if you try a wig because you feel that would help you, um, and then your wig experience was like really rubbish as well, then you just, it's like a double whammy.
Yes, I can relate to that. After my initial consultation, I realized there were aspects not covered in the consultation. You don't know until you know if that makes sense. When someone asks about the best blonde wig, certain shops might push their most expensive human hair blonde wig. It's crucial to consider one's lifestyle. Synthetic wigs, for instance, can be a lifesaver during busy times.
It's about helping people understand why certain features matter, like a lace front for a more realistic hairline. Education is key, not just in choosing the right wig but also in caring for it. There's a lot of misinformation out there, and it's important to be discerning about the sources of information.
Absolutely. It's essential to spread awareness about the right care and handling of wigs and to dispel misinformation. Sometimes, the wrong information can lead to irreparable damage. Asking questions and seeking reliable sources of information are key in this journey.
I was always open about it from the start. My hair had a grown-up pixie cut, and when it fell, it was a noticeable change. I opted to buy the hair I wanted, going longer to about this length. It was evident to me, although not everyone might notice right away. I didn't want people to speculate or assume I was unwell, especially concerning my daughters. I started the Instagram page the day I got the wig, and I also shared it on my personal Facebook. I wanted to be open, allowing people to choose if they wanted to learn more.
I didn't want to hide the fact that my hair had changed dramatically. It was a circumstance beyond my control, and I felt it was essential to address it openly. The only hiding I did was trying not to cry in front of my kids too often. It was a devastating experience, and tears were shed frequently during conversations, even at work. Humor was my coping mechanism, but being open about it helped me manage the emotional aspect. The overwhelming and supportive response from everyone was unexpected but heartwarming.
Yes, exactly. If I had hair, I would have to accept it as it is. However, not having hair allows me to match different hairstyles with various outfits. It's a strange thing to explain, but it's a unique experience.
Certainly! The first type is the completely open, oversharer, like myself, who is perfectly comfortable discussing and showing their hair loss. The second type is the total incognito, someone at the other end of the spectrum who isn't willing to disclose that they wear hair, maintaining the same style and not allowing anyone to see them without it. The third type is those who choose not to wear hair at all, fully embracing their natural look. They find contentment in it, which is incredibly brave. The fourth type, if I recall correctly, involves those who want to blend in and maintain a recognizable appearance, often utilizing toppers or extensions to enhance their existing hair.
Absolutely, it's about finding what makes you comfortable and confident in your own skin.
Jo, if you could give THREE tips to someone new with hairloss, what would you say?
I would The first tip is the the reassurance of the however horrendous you feel you won't feel that way forever, like it genuinely will get better, which actually you don't want to hear at that point because people used to say that to me and I'd be like, ah, go away, I don't want to know that but it genuinely will, and actually feeling better from the inside out helps tremendously, so it will come.
I think the second one is... Know your head size, measure your head, know where you're at head size, because it's wildly important for fit if you choose to wear hair, so it's just a really important factor because hundreds of people have no idea, thousands of people have no idea of their head size, I had no idea, and I think once you know where you sit, it gives you an insight into what you could start looking for and I think the third is Actually, don't rush yourself if, don't feel that you have to be okay with it earlier than you are, it just, everybody everybody deals with it in their own way and they deal with it in their own pace as well.
I think the only thing I would say is... If support's offered, go towards the support, look for support, because there are some really wonderful places that you can actually meet people that have experienced the same thing, or professionals that might be able to offer some kind of mental support.
I think mental health support is really important because as well as it being a physical visual thing, I think the stuff that goes on inside your head in dealing with it that's a really good place to start as well for some comfort for sure
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Meet Marcy Gallant, a 22-year-old social media influencer who is redefining beauty standards. Diagnosed with Alopecia at the age of six, Marcy's journey from self-consciousness to self-assured confidence is both inspiring and empowering. Join us as we explore her story of embracing Alopecia and celebrating individuality.
Hi everyone, my name is Marcy. I live in Canada, about two hours away from Toronto, if you know where that is. I am 22 years old. I've had Alopecia ever since I was around six years old and I've kind of fully embraced everything about my Alopecia, love rocking the bald, but also love, you know, trying out different looks and rocking different hairstyles and stuff like that. So it's a pretty good life that I'm living.
I remember losing my first batch of hair when I was six. I woke up one morning with just hair on my pillow. And as a kid, I was just really confused as to why. So I ran to my mom, who assured me everything was fine. She didn't want to show any fear on her face, but years later, when I was old enough, she told me she was panicking a little bit. So we went to my family doctor to see what was going on. At the time, he said he could not help me, so he referred me to a dermatologist, and that's when I was diagnosed correctly, probably around the age of seven.
It took me at least a year to see a pediatric dermatologist. He ran a bunch of blood tests and looked at my bald spots to investigate, and that's when he diagnosed me with Alopecia Areata. I have had Alopecia Areata ever since; probably no I had. Alopecia well, Alopecia Areata since I was six. Then it only progressed into Universalis complete body baldness at 18.
I could have remembered it better. I have faint memories that come back occasionally. That's just how they told it to me. I had a loving and welcoming family. They were incredibly supportive. I never hesitated to go to my mom for anything.
I get this question a lot, and it's hard for me to answer it because I'm not a parent. Still, if I were, the best possible thing I would do is try and normalize the whole experience. Many resources now exist, including Alopecia books with children undergoing hair loss and looking different from their classmates. And I feel like, you know, just those little things like reading those books to them or, you know, not kind of forcing a wig or a hat on them to hide it. The most important thing is to listen to them, listen to what they want because I'm studying child and youth studies. You know, just like children can understand—so many different things.
And there's probably so much fear within them because they are confused but capable. So I think the most extensive advice is to listen to them, ask them questions, ask them what they want, rather than kind of jumping to conclusions as, oh, my daughter or my son has Alopecia, and now I need to get a wig, I need to bring them wig shopping, I need to grab them a hat, I need to do this, like ask them, take the time just to sit them down, help them understand what's going on, maybe introduce them to other people in the community that you might know, get in touch with your local kind of organization.
For me, in Canada, it's CANIF, the Canadian Alopecia Areata Foundation. I know that there's one in the States called NAF. So there's just so much resources. Do a little Google search. There are so many recommendations that I could make because these are all the recommendations that I wish someone gave my parents or someone gave me growing up. And now I'm a mentor for many little mentees with Alopecia. It's the most unique, most rewarding work I do because I get to give back to my younger self a little bit, reconcile with what happened to me, and then give back to my community. So. That was a long answer to your question, but normalize, reach out, talk to people, introduce them in whatever manner you think is fit and whatever way you feel comfortable doing.
I remember feeling fearful because no one else looked like me. No one else just had random bald spots popping up around their head. And I think we live in a completely different world than ten years ago. So obviously, now when I walk down the street, the likelihood of me seeing another bald person or another person wearing a wig, there's just like, there's such a high chance. I see them everywhere now. I see me everywhere. But back then, many people chose to hide all of their differences or conform to the norms that society has instilled within us.
But yeah, I was afraid that I wouldn't be able to conform to society's norms. I felt like I needed to hide. I felt like I needed to wear a wig to be included in things, just to feel accepted by my peers. I was when I lost all my hair at the age of ten; that's when I had to buzz the rest of my little patches because I had lost 90% of my hair. It was such an emotional roller coaster for me because I knew I had to shave off my remaining hair. So I was very fearful, but I immediately jumped to a wig instead of reflecting on it.
But I feel like if I was a kid today and my parents could connect with other people, the whole trajectory of my Alopecia experience would have been different. Because, at the time, there was nothing, nothing like me. There was no one like me. There's nothing to help me other than the obvious, which is, okay, let's give you steroid injections into your head. Let's try topical creams. Let's put medication into your body, hoping your hair will grow back. And in the meantime, as we're trying this, let's throw a wig on you because you need to hide from society. After all, humanity will not accept you for who you are. So that's how I felt. And especially at a time when I was like the most susceptible to people's thoughts, to my peers' thoughts, especially like going through all of those identity crises that you go through at the age of like ten though, I mean we're always constantly having an identity crisis. Still, At that time, I felt like there was no other option but to hide and to conform. And that's what I did. And it took me a long time to figure out that, or find the beauty in Alopecia. But how do you find the beauty when you don't have the proper support? My parents, of course, were so supportive, my entire family. I had a few friends who gave me so much love, and I'm forever grateful for all the support that I was given. But if only there were someone in my community I knew who has Alopecia who I could grow up with, maybe things would have been different.
Of course, my parents were there to support me with all the emotions and roller coasters that Alopecia brought into my life. But no, there was no work internally that anyone was willing to pursue. I remember when I heard about a support group in my hometown in London, Ontario, when I was about to say, 16, 17, maybe; I was so excited. And I just thought, wow, if only this happened sooner. Like actually having people to talk to. That are going through the same experiences as I am, that would have been incredible. And I feel like even if, you know, my parents were looking into things like therapy, yes, it would have maybe helped, but also it wouldn't have provided the same as just like being in a community with people like me, because my parents were able to offer me the emotional support and my friends and stuff like that. And they were looking out for my best interest.
As I said, if we were growing up in today's world, they would have been less scared to try and fix or not fix me; that's the wrong word, but try and help me feel more comfortable in society. And they thought that getting me a wig, getting me scarves, doing these treatments because I was rooting for my hair back. I was rooting, and they knew that. and I was a passionate young girl and was always very spunky and outgoing. And why did I let, why did I let myself feel a certain kind of way? Why did I have to change myself for something I couldn't control?
So, in terms of the treatments, now that's a very... That's a heavy topic for me because I felt like my body went through so much trauma medically. And I think I'm still dealing with the repercussions of it all. The thought of a young child going through all of the treatments that I went through is just appalling because I'm like, why? I understand the medical world. It's important and does so much good, but why are we pumping poison through children's bodies for something like Alopecia? Alopecia is an autoimmune disease. And for the most part, we're all very healthy, unlike other diseases. Yes, when you have one autoimmune condition, the likelihood of you having multiple. Some of us have weakened immune systems. Some of us have heightened immune systems. There isn't enough research to tell us what Alopecia is or how it all started. All we know is that you're born with a gene that any environmental factor can activate. That could be you getting sick. That can be you having an allergy. That can be you getting a vaccine. There's so much need for science, because anyone can get Alopecia. There are so many different varieties of Alopecia you can get at any single age.
But going back to the treatment, I didn't immediately start with steroid injections into my head because my parents didn't want to put me through that. So I started with the topical, you know, treatments and stuff like that. Just creams, anointments, and lotions on my skin. It made my skin very greasy. It made it very irritating. And when it wasn't working, I built up the courage to get multiple steroid injections into my scalp at the age of 10. And it was painful. And I used a drugstore kind of Emla freezing cream, which didn't do anything. So it was excruciating, especially at the back of my head. The fact that I had to do that every month to try and get my hair back was a lot, and there wasn't a lot of downtime. I just had a massive headache, and I felt kind of out of it for the rest of the day. So that took me out of school for an entire day, which sucked, and I tried various other treatments when that was failing. The kicker was when I started this treatment called methotrexate. This is probably one of the most traumatic experiences of my entire life; I still think about it daily. And from what I understood, from what I remember, my dermatologist was going to put me on this new treatment. It wasn't new for the Alopecia community. It was treated; it was used to treat multiple other conditions and stuff like that. It was found that it promoted a good amount of hair growth.
So, at that point, I was probably 14 or 15 years old and desperate. I was; I was so tired of hiding. I was so, so tired of just like. letting this consume my life, and I just wanted my hair back. And I said, whatever you got, give it to me. So we went on to do this treatment, and it was a very invasive treatment. I didn't know what was being put into my body until a few weeks in. I'm sure my parents knew, and my dermatologists knew, but the thing is, no one took the time to explain the severity of the treatment. And the moment that I found out was when I was speaking with my aunt, who had just recently been diagnosed with cancer. She was on chemotherapy, and we were on the same medication simultaneously. Mine was at a much lower dosage, but that was when I realized what was going into my body. and I started with oral medications. It was six pills every Friday with folic acid every day leading up to it. It was the worst side effect that I have ever experienced in my entire life. And I kept going because it was working. I didn't want to think about the repercussions because I didn't fully understand. All I knew was chemotherapy was going through my body, to make my hair grow back. How does that make sense scientifically? I can't tell you that. So chemotherapy is supposed to do the opposite, but who knows? And then, I switched to the injection form because it was far too consuming for my body. The injection form is there, and the likelihood of you getting more side effects is low. So, the chances of me feeling a little bit better through that. So I took it so a nurse would come to my house every Friday in a full hazmat suit because if any liquid got onto someone's skin, it would burn right through, like I saw that as a child, my nurse was lovely. My nurse Jessica, I will always remember her. And we would always call it our Friday date nights to make something out of it. And it would take them, it would take her at least three minutes to inject all of it. So I stood there strong for three minutes as she knelt down and gave me an injection to my thigh. And I stopped after a year and a half. After all, it was killing me on the inside. After all, I wasn't able to be a regular kid, because every single weekend, I would be stuck at home with so much nausea, heartburn, often puking, headaches, chills, and all of the fun stuff that comes with putting your body through chemotherapy. So, I had to make that decision myself, and my parents were 100% supportive.
And the moment I stopped, my hair fell out, all of it. All of that progress for a year and a half fell out. And only years later did I realize the repercussions. And there were so many long-term side effects that I didn't know about. And my doctors are still trying to figure it out. Still, I was diagnosed with a weird neurological condition in my leg called Functional Focal Dystonia, where sometimes I lose control over my entire limb on my right-hand side. And there is suspicion that Methotrexate could have caused that. And I also had many concussions, which could have played a role. I also have a heart condition, which is one of the long-term side effects of Methotrexate. So, to say that I'm traumatized from that medication is an understatement, but yeah,
Yeah, I want everyone to feel comfortable in their skin. Everyone deserves that feeling of relief, you know. I'm advocating for my baldies out there, everyone with Alopecia or hair loss, but honestly, anyone with any physical difference. Like I'm a huge advocate for the disability community. Like, can we not just, you know, normalize them being them? Like, let's not try and fix them, you know? Like, let's embrace everyone for who they are, you know? It's just, there are so many, so many groups in our society that deserve so much more reconciliation and so much more support than we're giving them. And it breaks my heart when I see or when I want to talk to people, and they're like, I need to do this, this, and this to feel normal or for people to perceive me as normal. I'm like, what is normal?
What is normal nowadays? Like seriously, I've had to write many essays with that question in mind: what is normal? Why are we trying to fix people? Like, let's just, let's give it up. Let's just be who we are, be kind, and give love to every human being. Let's look out for everyone's best interest. Let's look out for their emotions and the repercussions that something like hair loss can cause. I understand that everyone is entitled to decide whether they undergo treatment or choose to wear a wig or not. But it's just like, people need to, this is a whole other point of conversation, but there needs to be a shift that needs to occur between people thinking Alopecia and hair loss is a cosmetic issue versus a medical issue. It is a medical issue. It's an autoimmune disease. A lot of treatments need to be covered. Many wigs aren't covered, and everyone is entitled to their safety blanket, whatever that may be. And still people to this day. Think that Alopecia is a cosmetic thing. If you are undergoing chemo, you should get everything for that, all of the support that you need because you're fighting for your life, but you will get coverage for a wig. But what about us dealing with Alopecia, who may want a wig? It's something we'll have to live with for the rest of our lives. So I'm also a huge advocate for fighting insurance companies and just advocating to get that shift happening. And it's just there's so much I want to change in this world, and I have so much passion within me. It's just, it's so hard, so hard to distribute energy.
Where I live in Canada, the term "cranial prosthesis" is commonly used to describe wigs for medical reasons. However, obtaining coverage is often more complex. Insurance providers may set specific criteria, such as requiring hair loss to result from medical treatments like chemotherapy. As I went through it, the reality was that insurance coverage could be quite limited and insufficient. Sometimes, individuals receive a one-time reimbursement as low as $300 for a lifetime. This falls far short of the expenses of high-quality wigs or cranial prosthesis.
I owe much to my family, who played a pivotal role in my journey. Despite the financial burden, they went above and beyond to ensure that I felt comfortable in my skin. They invested thousands of dollars to provide me with the means to cope with my Alopecia.
After I finished my methotrexate, again around the age of 15, by the time I finished 16, I needed to give my body a break. Throughout that time, I was slowly starting to accept my new self, my fate, and the fact that my hair probably will never grow back, and that's not giving up hope. That's just being realistic, and I needed to get to that moment to move on with my life. And that's just like my personal trajectory of life. That's what I needed to do at that time. But I gave my body a break. So there goes 17, or maybe I did methotrexate when I was 13, 14—finishing at 15 and 16.
Yeah, so I remember taking a full year off, maybe one or two years off, and then I decided to Try one last thing because my body had developed and it had grown. So I decided to give the steroid injections another shot because there had been proof saying that, you know, just because you try it at one stage of your life doesn't mean it's not going to work in another. So that was kind of, I promised myself, I'm like, Marcy, this is what you're going to have to do, and if it doesn't work, you're still going to be okay, but let's give it a shot. And I did. And my hair grew back. It was dark, which surprised me because I was a blonde growing up. It was very blonde, and then it progressed into a dirty blonde. So my hair grew back, and it was cute. There were still little bald spots, but I could still rock this cute little look. And I enjoyed it for about a year.
And then, as my hair started to fall out again, everything else went with it. And that is when my body progressed into Alopecia Universalis. I don't know why. I have some speculations, but I will never really truly know. But honestly, like, I went through a long time where, you know, I was shaving my head, and there were, like, patches here and there, and I just prayed and prayed and prayed. I'm like, please give me Alopecia Universalis, because I don't want to have to shave my head anymore. I want to be fully bald, And it happened. I was really happy the eyebrows and the eyelashes were hard to lose, specifically the eyelashes. Honestly, I couldn't be happier with the state that I'm in right now. I'm like, live in my life, and I think it needed to happen, and it led me to this moment. I am so proud of everything I've accomplished and wish I got there sooner. I wish I lived a little better as a kid, but I am not the one to blame. Society is. And if only people were more accepting if only I didn't go through bullying, if only I didn't feel the need to hide. Under a wig, things would have been different. Maybe, maybe. But everything that I did has led me to this moment, led me to this moment with you, that I'm thankful to be here. And yeah, it's been one heck of a journey.
It was hard. I want to say that for the first years of my life when I had Alopecia, it didn't bother me because I had little bald spots, but I had long enough hair to cover it. And I remember this clearest day, it was Saturday, a Saturday going into a weekend. And a large chunk of my hair fell out when I was approaching the age of 10. And I knew it was falling out, but it just fell out astronomically on this day. And I no longer was able to cover it. So I had enough hair here. I didn't have hair here, but I got special permission from my school because you're not allowed to wear hats in school, to wear a beanie. So, for the longest time, I wore a beanie that hung on the back of my head to cover that bald spot. That only lasted a few months, but another Saturday happened. I lost all of this. And I panicked. I thought I had more time, and my mom panicked. And I'm like, what do I do? And she goes, do you want to go wig shopping? And I did. And I found what I thought was the most beautiful wig. It was very different from my other hair, but it was the best thing I got in my hometown.
Then I went to school on that Monday, and people were so confused they're like, you had so little hair with a little beanie, and now you have a full head of hair, and it's a different color what's going on which led them to walk a little closer, and then they realized that it was a wig and that's when the bullying started that's when they called me “barbie doll bubble head.” They wanted to figure out what was underneath my head. So I remember just like always keeping it, keeping my hands like this, because I was afraid that someone was going to rip it off. And I had a bunch of really close friends, good close friends that knew exactly what I was going through and were so supportive, but I just kept getting bullied and bullied and bullied. And it was just like, I didn't want to go to school anymore. I was so upset. I was devastated. So, I was approaching the end of the year in grade six, and that's when my school year finished in grade six because I grew up in the French system. So it goes kindergarten to grade six, and then you go to middle school, seven to 12. So, I decided to do a PowerPoint presentation with my best friend at the time about Alopecia. and that's what I did at the end of the year in front of my entire grade six class. And I told them how it made me feel when I heard these kinds of comments and that I was getting bullied for something I couldn't control. At the end of the presentation, I took off my wig and showed them what I truly looked like because I knew they were all curious. And let me tell you how many apologies and tears I got. That day was the moment that I thought I knew this was what I needed to do. I needed to educate myself. I needed to raise awareness.
I knew that starting a new school the following year in grade seven would be hard. And the same thing happened. It was just a new pool of kids. These were kids from all different schools. This was no longer elementary. This high school is basically middle high school, but in one school, grades seven to 12. And I remember on the first day of school, I was hiding in the bathroom. I was just, you know, doing my business, and then these girls walked in and talked about me. And I had never met these girls in my life. They had just seen me. And they were like, "Who's that girl with the ugly wig?" Why is she wearing a wig? It looks so fake. And they didn't realize I was in the bathroom, but I was hiding. And I thought things were going to get better, and then they didn't. So then I decided to do the same presentation, but I went to every single seventh and eighth class because that was the pool of students that I was dealing with. And then, after that, no one said anything. Like I gained more friends, but I never became friends with those girls on the first day of school, let me tell you that. But, like, it was a way to introduce my new self to the world. I felt more comfortable rocking different wigs like I didn't necessarily want to wear that same wig every day. So I felt comfortable, you know because everyone knew what I was going through, everyone knew my face, everyone knew who I was, so like, and everyone knew what I was dealing with. So, the only reason why people judge is because they don't fully understand the story, and I truly mean that.
But then, the high school kids became a bigger issue. I thought I wouldn't have to worry about them because we were on a completely different schedule, but it was just like these older grade 12 boys were just the death of me. And I thought that I was never going to feel safe in school. And so I went to the principal one day because a situation occurred. And he's like, what do you want to do about it? And I thought long and hard, and I go, when's the next assembly? The next assembly arrived a few weeks later, and I got up in front of the entire school; there was no presentation, just me, myself, and I, and the principal introduced me to a grade 12 kid who also had Alopecia, a boy, and we became buddy-buddy, and he came up and just stood beside me for support. He doesn't like to talk about it, but he just came up with me. He goes all the power to you. I will. I will be that person on your side. And I spoke in front of the entire student body, all grade seven to grade 12, the faculty, everybody. It was the scariest moment of my life, but I did it and couldn't feel more proud of myself. And after that, I didn't have any issues. No bullying. I'm sure people were talking behind my back about my different crazy wigs. Still like, it didn't bother me because everyone knew. And I felt a lot more confident walking into the doors, knowing everyone knew what I was going through. And yeah, and then after every year finished when the new year came about. The new grade sevens would come in, and I would talk to them, the newbies of the school, to raise awareness and introduce myself, and I ended up meeting a few different people who had Alopecia who was hiding it and, um yeah, that kind of that was the start of my journey towards you know, raising awareness and doing everything in my power just to spread the word.
I started wearing wigs when I was ten years old when I went to that little wig store in my hometown. I felt so uncomfortable the entire time, so it was a very quick journey. I saw a long blonde wig, and I just snagged it. I thought it was beautiful. It looked like it could have looked more realistic, but I felt comfortable once I went to school. So, I kept trying to investigate different wig salons in my hometown. I went to them all. I tried synthetic for a long time. I went to a hairdresser specializing in hair loss who also sold wigs, but the biggest thing I struggled with as a kid was that the wigs never fit my head. Never. I had a peanut-sized head, and these wigs were not meant for head sizes like mine. And so I continued the journey, you know, whenever we'd visit my grandparents in Florida, we'd look at wig shops there. And I remember finding my first kind of good-ish quality wig in Florida, which I was really happy with. And I found a good one in Montreal. But none of them just lasted. None of them fit my head properly. All of them felt wrong. Until I got a cool opportunity, I was on the set of Downsizing, the movie with Matt Damon. I was an extra because they were looking for bald people. I met this girl who is, like, two years older than me. And, um, she introduced me to a few other wig salons nearby but outside my hometown. And so I visited them, and that was when I was truly introduced to what a good quality wig looked like, what a wig looked like when it truly fit your head. And I was so happy to have found all those wig companies because I finally felt comfortable in my skin. And I felt like wigs gave me the leverage and that safety blanket. But then, when I found those good quality wigs, it also introduced me to the beauty and the fun of wigs and just like how much joy they can bring into my life and how much they can affect my personality and how they would make me feel when I felt comfortable in them and confident in them. And that's when I found my love for wigs. And I felt more comfortable rocking different hairstyles and trying out new things because I'm like, wow, Alopecia was such a dark time in my life, now I'm having fun with it. And then, when I felt comfortable in wigs, I experienced some time without wigs. And you know, it was baby steps; let me tell you, I did not take off my wig for a second unless I was with my family, but then it got to a point where I'm like, okay, I'm talking about this you know I'm raising awareness so I need to start this new journey of mine of being who I am and not that I was always hiding behind a wig, but it felt that way. So I started with the little milestones, baby steps, you know, walking the dog without a wig, walking to the mailbox without a wig, you know, just going to school and taking off my wig during lunch period, and then putting it back on for class. You know, it was just all of those baby steps.
A moment in my life when I realized that it was okay for me to do this. Like, fully embrace it now. And my friend and I had tickets to the MMVAs in Toronto. It's a music award show. And I'm about two hours away from London. So we were packing up, and then we got there, and then I panicked because what did I forget? I forgot my wig. And so my mom's like, okay. She went into full mom-planning mode. She's like, what do you want to do? She's like, we can go to a wig store. We can get you a cute purple wig if you want. I can take you to a barber, and we can, you know, we can shave, buzz your hair off if you want. Because, like, I wasn't clean-shaven back then. I was using a buzzer, and I'm like, I don't know, like, I don't want to spend any more money on wigs, and I don't want you to have to spend any more money on wigs. And if I get a cheap wig, I will just be uncomfortable. I'm going to be hot. It's just not going to be fun. So, take me to the first salon we see. So I went to a salon, and they buzzed my hair off. That was my first time going out in the biggest public space I had so far. And I rocked it. And that moment made me realize, wow, people don't care what I look like. Yeah, I get stares here and there. And you know, people would say comments and stuff like that. People would compliment me, but I'm like, I can do this now. So, the wig-wearing never stopped because I will always love wigs. After all, they're just so much fun, and I get to be different every day. But that was when I truly embraced rocking the bald in public.
Yeah, I mean, like when I got into the world of dating, like even in like young like little crushes and like elementary school and then progressing into high school, I was terrified out of my mind because I'm like, okay, I've got lots of lots of friends, they accept me, got family who accept me, but like if the world is still so mean and so judgmental. And again, I was at a state of my life where I'm like, everyone's trying to be the It Girl and be seen with all the boys and vice versa or just like whoever you were, whoever you were attracted to. And I was terrified, just like, no one is ever going to. No one's ever going to love me. And then I kind of go, I realized, like later on, that was such a stupid thing for me to say to myself and think that. So, I think as the years went on, I talked to a few different people, and it was uncomfortable because I wanted to tell them.
I remember having a few experiences at the end of elementary school where I would say I would meet someone, and they wouldn't realize that I was wearing a wig, and they'd be so attracted to me, and we'd have great conversations, and go on cute little dates. And then I'd get to a moment where I felt comfortable to tell them, ghosted. And that was kids. Like I was a kid. I would hate if anyone went through that as an adult because that would just be so horrible. But then, you know, like, I became more confident. I felt like the more I became more confident in myself, the more people felt confident about kind of not necessarily our relationship, but when I exude confidence, they felt kind of at ease. When I felt insecure, they're like, ooh, I'm walking on eggshells, you know? So it was, it was a struggle. But then, I talked to a few people at the beginning of high school, and I met a guy, and he was just, he was so different from any other guy that I had spoken to. And I was public on social media at this time with my Alopecia. So it helped that, you know, whomever I would meet would follow me on Instagram, let's say, and would know. So I wouldn't have to like tell them. They would already know. And if they wanted to go on a date with me, it's because they know the full kind of, like the full of who I am and how I like to rock different wigs. And this guy was different, and he made me feel so loved. And we were together for a long time. He was with me through a whole lot. You know, I only wore my wig when I was with him because I was afraid. But then, for the first time, I, you know, showed my true self in front of a guy, which I never thought I would do because he made me feel so comfortable. And then, you know, my hair suddenly grew back and he was with me through that. And then he was also with me as I was losing my hair. And we broke up a few times, we got back together, and then we were together for a long time. And we broke up. We broke up over a year ago now, a year and a half ago, and we're still on great terms. and I will forever be thankful for what he was able to show me. He showed me love for who I was as a person. And I think that made me feel more confident, you know, going back into the dating game as now an adult. I was still very scared because I felt so safe in that relationship. And I'm like, he loves me for me, but that's not to say that any other, you know, guys will love me. So I was really scared, but you know, did all of the dating apps and stuff like that. And I just emphasized the fact that I was bald in my first picture. And if they swiped right, then that's who they were getting. And that's how I navigate the wig world. I'm like, I'm not going to put a wig picture of my wig first because I don't want them to see that. I want them to see me as a bald woman. bald and confident, bald and beautiful first.
And that led me to my new relationship with my boyfriend, whom I love dearly. And he is just so accepting. And he loves that there's just so much to me. I'm not a simple person. And he loves that, you know, he can get a blonde girlfriend, then a brunette girlfriend, and a redhead. All into one person. He loves that. He also loves seeing me embrace the bald because he's so proud to be beside someone so confident and sure of herself. So, the date game is scary when dealing with hair loss, but it helped me. And I use social media to my advantage. Not everyone is at that stage, but that helped me. But I also hear so many different stories of women going through the dating world with hair loss or wig wearing or topper wearing and stuff like that. And it's scary. But honestly, the guys I have met in my short, short time of dating like they've all been really, truly awesome. And again, when you exude confidence, confidence is sexy. Confidence is attractive. And I think that more women need to know that you are just so beautiful just the way you are, and hair loss is a journey, a battle. I hope that everyone will get to that stage of self-acceptance because, let me tell you, it's the best feeling in the world when you get there. I know it's so hard to get there, but dating is tricky for anyone, and it's a little bit trickier when you have hair loss and you're hiding a secret. But from what I know is that not a lot of people care. Again, bald is beautiful. Bald is attractive.
Suppose you offer three pieces of advice to a woman who has recently discovered she is experiencing hair loss. What would those three valuable tips help her navigate this new journey?
First, do a quick Google search or an Instagram search and find people. Find people who are undergoing the same thing as you and connect with them. That's my number one. Community is everything. When you find out that there are so many other people going through or have gone through the same thing or similar thing that you have gone through, it just makes things so much easier. Connections are everything. Um, my second word of advice. It would be to tell someone, well, you could do this first, you could do this first, or whatever, whatever step you want to take first is to tell the people you love. The closest people to you because you're going to need them. Don't try and attempt to do this on your own; don't do that to yourself because you're going to need the people you love most and the people who love you most in the world. To be by your side through all of this. Number three. Reflect on what you want at that moment. Go through all your options, whether treatments, wigs, or toppers, or explore shaving your head, shaving the rest of your head off, and embracing that new self. Reflection is incredibly important throughout this entire process. And also, when you start to experience those little milestones, the moments you didn't think you would get to, celebrate those moments. Celebrate the moment you tell your first person you're experiencing hair loss. Celebrate the moment that you, I don't know, by your first wig, celebrate a moment that you do something that you never thought you would do when starting this journey. Those moments are so important to celebrate, and I wish I had known that. I wish I had celebrated those moments more. I celebrate every day now to make up for it.
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But I never knew about her past. In this interview, I got to see her journey from childhood to now.
Lacie has been on the journey of self-discovery and growth for many years.
She has overcome childhood depression, trauma, and EMDR therapy. She has learned to create solid boundaries, to become a mum, to have self-love and acceptance, and to create a community of women who would literally walk on fire for her.
Yes, we do talk about hair loss too, but there is so much more happening on the inside. That is where we go on “Beyond the Head Start”.
During our show, Lacie exclaimed, “Wow, now we are really going deep.” She sat back and took a breath.
Join us each week for a new episode. Make sure to sign up for our newsletter at DimplesHair.com to get exclusive show notes and resources from each interview.
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Lacie Rodriguez, known for her social media presence, is also a source of inspiration within the online community for female hair loss.
Her journey began in college when depression and anxiety triggered her hair loss. Hair toppers became her unexpected lifeline, restoring her confidence. But her story goes beyond external solutions.
Lacie emphasizes the link between outer appearance and inner well-being, advocating that addressing hair loss can foster inner wholeness.
She candidly shares her battle with depression and anxiety since middle school, highlighting resilience and self-acceptance. Lacie's story is a reminder that our worth transcends physical appearance, offering valuable contributions to the world.
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Born in Utah for most of my life, mostly in small towns. I have been married for almost 14 years and have three children, ages 12, 9, and 4. I do various things on my own, but primarily focus on content creation for social media.I began creating makeup tutorials and selling makeup. I also work within the online community for female hair loss. When discussing my journey, I presume you are referring to my experience with hair loss.
Can you tell us more about your experience with hair loss?
In my journey, I've come to appreciate how hair loss can serve as a catalyst for deeper self-reflection. Insecurities are something we all grapple with, regardless of gender. However, it often feels like society places greater emphasis on a woman's physical appearance, making it challenging to break free from this narrative.
Throughout my life, my physical appearance has been a significant source of personal struggle, requiring extensive inner work. Losing my hair at the age of 19 during a particularly stressful period in college was a profound experience. It triggered a deep depression and anxiety, which I believe played a role in the onset of androgenic alopecia, a form of genetic hair loss.
This experience was utterly devastating. It wasn't just about losing hair; it extended to a broader sense of insecurity about my body and various aspects of my life. Hair loss, in particular, made me feel utterly powerless.
However, it was during this challenging period that I made a significant discovery—hair toppers. Contrary to the misconception that they are used to hide hair loss, for me, they became a source of empowerment. Finding a hair topper that worked effectively allowed me to step out into the world with newfound confidence, without constantly worrying about my hair.
It's hard to verbalize, but many women have had the same experience. Hair loss is the most powerless I've ever felt about my physical appearance. With my body, I knew I had some power, but with my hair, I felt totally powerless. The doctor told me it's genetic and there's no solution. It was devastating. When I found hair toppers, I felt empowered again. It was my decision whether or not to have a full head of hair. Now, I rarely wear hair toppers. It doesn't make me feel any better or more deserving. I've realized that my worth as a human being is not tied to my physical appearance.
However there are some days I don't care about my appearance, while other days I feel insecure. But those moments are becoming less frequent. When I catch myself being negative, I ask if I would say those things to my daughter or other women. I try to be kind to myself. I like the analogy that a $20 bill has the same value, whether it's new or old. My worth is not determined by my appearance.I have so much more to offer the world. I no longer attach my worth to what I look like. It's been a huge turnaround.
In middle school, I started going to therapy because my dad noticed I slept a lot and thought something was wrong. I was diagnosed with depression and tried many medications in high school, but didn't find one that worked well for me. I also experienced anxiety, but didn't realize it at the beginning. I had a perfectionism mindset and always felt like I wasn't good enough. After high school, I pushed myself too hard and burned out.
College overwhelmed me with new responsibilities and bills. Going into a prestigious university, I wasn't prepared and spiraled into depression and anxiety. I started therapy and took medication for a while. I've had postpartum depression and anxiety after my daughters. However, I've been in a good mental health state for several years now. Therapy, the right support system, and learning how manage myself have all contributed. I now know my limits, take care of myself, set boundaries, heal relationships, and improve communication. It's been a combination of many things that have helped me reach this good place.
James, I want to share something with you. I grew up in an abusive home. My dad was a monster and I experienced a lot of abuse. It was really rough for me. My parents had an unstable relationship throughout my childhood. My mom was always on the verge of a breakdown. I knew I couldn't be a burden to her. I had to protect her. Sorry, I'm getting emotional.
It took me a long time, but I finally learned. I experienced depression, anxiety, and a fear of being alone. I would stay in bed all day, avoiding my issues and responsibilities. It was a lot of work, but I've made progress. I pushed everything down because I didn't want my mom's life or worry about me. My dad never respected my feelings, it was always about him. My siblings and I learned not make things harder for anyone and protect our mom. We took on adult responsibilities as kids. Childhood trauma included fear of anger because of my dad's anger. It took me a while, but I now understand that anger and conflict is part of life.
In the past I avoided it at all costs. I mean, it would take a lot for me to face any kind of conflict. And it was normally after I have, you know, pushed it down, pushed it down so long to the point then I explode and that happens. It still happens sometimes, but it's never quite as bad because I really try to pay attention, you know, like when people say like, don't sweat the small stuff and like, you know, pick your battles, those kinds of things. I used to take... to the point where I would pick no battles and I would sweat nothing because I didn't wanna fight about anything.
And now I have to really think, is this really something small or is it really affecting me? And I just think it should be small. And I really have to try to face those things early on. I'm also really big about proactively avoiding conflict. So. like setting boundaries before there's even a chance for conflict, that's worked really well for me in any kind of relationship or situation where I try really hard to think about like, where could this go wrong? Like where are all these outlets where this could go wrong? And let's try to plug them now so that there's no chance of us fighting about this later.
So that's worked really well too, but I still hate conflict. I'm never gonna like conflict. It still makes me super uncomfortable, still breaks my heart when I feel like I'm hurting somebody just for standing up for myself. Like it's still super hard, but I'm not as afraid of it as I used to be.
I'm a pretty passionate person. And I think anytime I just have this, I'm just a very, you know, I feel things really deeply. And so anger is one of them and I do, I get really angry. And in the past, I would just, I was so afraid of anger. I was afraid of doing something I would regret or saying something I would regret.
Emotions serve a purpose, including anger, which signals something is wrong. Ignoring anger is like ignoring the symptoms of a deadly disease, which can have serious consequences. I've learned to face my anger, dig deeper to understand its root cause. It's not usually about trivial things like socks on the floor, but about feeling unheard or unimportant. I've realized it's best to take a break when I'm really angry, allowing myself to regulate before addressing the conflict. In all relationships, including work, anger can be appropriate, but it's important to manage it constructively. I have helped a lot of women learn to do this. I have learned to use my anger as a tool, allowing it to motivate me rather than destroy the relationships I care about.
I stumbled into this career unexpectedly. I have a deep emotional connection with people and easily make friends. Selling makeup was something I started on social media to regain my sense of self. I also discovered hair toppers around the same time. Initially, I thought it was a niche topic, but it made a big difference in my life, so I decided to share about it. Women started reaching out to me, wanting to know more. I began experimenting with different kinds of toppers and people would approach me for advice.
Some people feel vain when they mourn their hair loss. It is normal to mourn the loss of hair. People often want a topper that looks very realistic. They want it to look natural. There are many factors to consider for a natural-looking topper. The biggest thing women are looking for is a one-on-one connection
I always tell people to find community as soon as you possibly can. And a lot of women act like that seems childish. Like, you know, I'm not in high school anymore. I don't need like a girl gang. And that's really not what it is at all. But it's just finding that support system of women who've been through the same thing. And I don't know the magic of that is just incomparable. So finding these women and filling your social media feed really amazing women who are living a really fulfilling life and also have hair loss. Some of them don't even wear alternative hair and that's good to see too. You don't have to have alternative hair to live a happy life but some of us choose to wear it. So I would say that is a huge part of kind of shifting your perspective because a lot of us feel like when our hair is falling out that like, you know, the joy in life, the like that joy of going out and enjoying a night out is over. but it doesn't have to be. So I'd say finding community is first.
The second thing is finding some kind of solution for you and that can be a million different things. Could be like shaving your head and just rocking like a bald look. There are some women, that's what they do and they feel really empowered by that and that's their choice of their solution, right? It doesn't have to be, of course, my solution is hair toppers and wigs. Like I love wearing hair when I wanna feel put together. You could just really double down on working with a doctor, a dermatologist, if you feel like that's going to help you in this journey, do it. Finding something to focus on that's within your control. That doesn't mean your hair's gonna magically grow back. You might, but it's usually just feeling like you're taking that power back. That I'm doing something about something that feels powerless. So finding some kind of solution for you to give you some of that power back. And then just... doing that inner work and sometimes that's therapy, sometimes that's just self care and getting really, really familiar with how you function and what your real needs are. And the more you work on that, the better you're gonna feel and the less you're gonna care about losing your hair.
The Dimples Topper Lacie is wearing: Clio 14L French •Remy Human Hair
Items Lacie uses to keep her Dimples Toppers long-lasting - COMBO PACK | Shampoo & Conditioner for Remy Human Hair
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Whether you want to try a new hairstyle, experiment with different colors, or add some volume and length, wigs can help you achieve your desired look.
However, wearing a wig can also be challenging, especially if you're not familiar with how to put it on properly.
Whether you want to try a new hairstyle, experiment with different colors, or add some volume and length, wigs can help you achieve your desired look.
However, wearing a wig can also be challenging, especially if you're not familiar with how to put it on properly.
You might wonder how to make your wig fit securely, how to blend it with your natural hairline, or how to style it without damaging it.
Don't worry; we're here to help you.
In this article, we'll show you how to put on a wig step by step and give you some tips and tricks to make your wig look natural and beautiful.
We'll guide you through the process and answer some of the most common questions about wearing wigs.
By the end of this article, you'll be able to put on a wig with confidence and ease.
Depending on the amount and length of your natural hair, you may need to follow different steps to prepare your hair for wearing a wig. Here are some tips for each hair type:
If you have short hair, you can easily prepare it for a wig by following a few simple steps.
Start by brushing your hair back from your face to create a smooth surface.
Secure any loose strands with bobby pins and use a light hairspray to set the style. This will help keep your natural hair in place and prevent it from peeking out from under the wig.
It's important to avoid spraying hairspray directly onto the wig, as it can cause damage to the wig fibers.
If you have medium to long hair, minimizing bulk, stray hairs and keeping your hair flat to achieve a seamless wig fit is essential.
There are a couple of options to consider.
One method is to create pin curls by wrapping small sections of your hair around your fingers and securing them to your scalp with bobby pins.
This technique helps to flatten the hair and create a smooth surface for the wig. Braiding hair is another option.
You can make two French braids starting from the front of your head and ending at the nape of your neck.
Then, cross the braids over each other and tuck them under the opposite sides of your head.
Secure the braids with clips and bobby pins to keep them in place and avoid any stray hairs.
For those with little or no bio hair (biological hair), wearing a wig cap underneath the wig can be beneficial.
A wig cap is a thin, stretchy fabric that covers the scalp and provides a secure base for the wig.
It helps hold the wig in place and offers comfort and protection, especially for sensitive scalps.
You can choose a wig cap that matches your skin tone or the color of your wig for a more natural look. However, with Dimples Hera wigs, you can skip the wig cap.
Their PerFit® hand-tied wig caps are designed with a silky soft layer that provides an intuitive and comfortable fit, mimicking the feel of your own skin.
These caps are ideal for those with sensitive skin seeking a barely-there-wear experience.
Wearing a wig can be a great way to change your look, enhance your style, or cover hair loss.
However, to enjoy the full benefits of wearing a wig, you need to make sure it is securely attached to your head.
A loose or shifting wig can cause embarrassment, discomfort, or damage to your natural hair or scalp.
Fortunately, there are various methods you can use to secure your wig in place and feel confident and comfortable throughout the day.
Here are some of the most common and effective ways to keep your wig from slipping:
Wig tape is a double-sided tape that can be used to attach your wig to your scalp or wig cap.
It is a popular choice for many wig wearers because it is easy to apply and remove, and it can provide a strong and long-lasting hold.
To use wig tape, you need to cut small pieces of tape and stick the strip of tape along the perimeter of your wig cap or directly onto your scalp.
Then, carefully align your wig with the tape and press it firmly onto the tape to create a secure bond.
Make sure to avoid any contact with your natural hair or skin, as the tape can pull or irritate them when removed.
Wig glue is another type of adhesive product that can be used to secure your wig in place.
It is specially designed for use with wigs and can offer a more natural-looking and seamless attachment than wig tape.
Wig glue comes in different forms, such as liquid, tape, or cream, and you need to choose the one that suits your preferences and needs.
To use wig glue, you need to apply a thin layer of glue along the perimeter of your wig cap or scalp and wait for it to become tacky.
Then, carefully position your wig on top of the glue and press it gently onto the glue to create a secure bond.
Wig glue can provide a stronghold for your wig, but you need to be careful when using it.
You need to follow the instructions carefully, use the right amount of glue, and remove it properly to avoid any damage to your scalp or wig.
You also need to check the ingredients of the wig glue before using it to make sure you are not allergic to any of them.
A wig grip headband is a convenient and comfortable option for securing your wig.
It is a stretchy, breathable fabric headband that has adjustable straps that can securely hold your wig in place.
It works by creating friction between the headband and the wig cap, preventing the wig from sliding or moving.
To use a wig grip headband, you simply need to wear it underneath your wig, adjusting it to fit snugly around your head.
The headband will grip your wig without causing any discomfort or damage.
A silicon sheet is a thin, adhesive sheet that can be placed on your scalp to create a non-slip surface for your wig.
The silicon material has a high friction coefficient that can grip your wig cap and prevent it from shifting or sliding.
This method can offer a secure hold without the need for tapes or glues that may leave residues or harm your scalp or hair.
To use a silicon sheet, you need to cut it into small pieces and stick them onto your scalp where you want to attach your wig.
Then, simply put on your wig and adjust it as needed.
Wig clips or bobby pins are simple and inexpensive tools that can be used to anchor your wig to your natural hair or wig cap.
They are small metal clips or pins that can be attached to your hair or through the wig cap, securing the wig in place.
To use them, you need to open the clip or pin and slide it onto your hair or through the wig cap along the perimeter of the wig.
Make sure not to place them too tightly, as they may cause discomfort or pull out your hair.
If you are looking for an extra level of security and convenience for your wig, you may want to consider Dimples Hair's Hera wigs.
These wigs feature a hand-tied cap with silicone strips that provide a secure grip for your wig without any adhesive products or damaging tapes.
The silicone strips create a suction effect that prevents the wig from slipping or shifting on your head.
You can confidently wear these wigs without worrying about them coming off.
By using these methods or choosing Dimples Hera wigs with advanced features, you can ensure that your wig stays securely attached to your head all day long.
This way, you can enjoy wearing your wig with ease and style.
Putting on a wig can be a simple and enjoyable process if you follow some basic steps and tips.
Whether you are wearing a wig for the first time or you are a seasoned wig wearer, you want to make sure that your wig fits well, looks natural, and feels comfortable.
Here are some steps to guide you through the process of putting on a wig:
Prepare your hair or scalp for the wig. If you have long or thick hair, you may want to braid it or pin it flat against your head.
This will help create a smooth and even base for the wig.
If you have short or no hair, you may want to wear a wig cap or liner to protect your scalp and prevent the wig from slipping.
Identify the front and back of the wig. Most wigs have a label or tag at the nape of the neck, which indicates the back of the wig.
Some wigs also have ear tabs or combs on the sides, which help with alignment and security.
Hold the wig by the nape with both hands, making sure that the front of the wig is facing you.
Tilt your head slightly forward and place the front of the wig above your eyebrows.
Gently slide the wig over your head from front to back, being careful not to pull or tug on the wig.
Adjust the position of the wig until it sits slightly below your natural hairline.
You can use your fingers to gently move the wig around until it feels comfortable and balanced.
Make sure that the ear tabs or combs are in front of your ears and that they are visible and not covered by the wig.
Depending on the type and style of the wig, you may need to adjust the parting to suit your preference and face shape.
Some wigs have fixed partings that cannot be changed, while others have more flexibility and customization options.
You can use a comb or your fingers to create or change the parting as you wish.
Check the overall appearance of the wig and make any final adjustments as needed.
You can tuck in any loose hairs or wisps that may be showing or use some styling products or tools to enhance the look of the wig.
However, be careful not to use any heat on synthetic hair wigs, as they can melt or damage the fibers.
If the wig feels too tight or too loose, you can adjust the size using the tabs or straps at the back of the wig cap.
Most wigs have adjustable features that allow you to customize the fit to your head size and shape.
You can tighten or loosen them until you feel comfortable and secure.
Putting on a wig can be a hassle, but not with Dimples Hera Wig.
This wig is designed for everyday wear as it makes your life easier by eliminating most of the steps involved in putting on a wig.
Dimples Hera Wigs make wearing a wig easy and comfortable.
You don't need to spend a lot of time preparing your hair or securing the wig.
You can simply follow these steps to put on your wig and style it as you wish.
First, look at the inside of the wig and locate the front and back labels.
The front label should be near the lace that covers the forehead, and the back label should be near the nape of the neck.
Next, hold the wig by the front and back labels and gently place it over your head.
Make sure that the ear tabs are aligned with your ears and that the wig is not too tight or too loose.
You can adjust the size of the elastic band by using the hooks or Velcro at the back of the wig.
Then, carefully position the front lace until it reaches your natural hairline.
The lace should blend in with your skin and create a realistic appearance of hair growth.
If you don't have a natural hairline or a reference point, you can use your fingers to measure where to place the wig.
A general rule is to leave about four fingers' width of space between your eyebrows and the edge of the wig for a realistic finish.
Finally, you can style your wig as you normally would with your own hair.
You can use a comb, a wig brush, or your fingers to arrange the hair in any way you like.
You can also use heat tools, such as a curling iron or a flat iron, to create different looks.
However, be careful not to damage the lace or the hair fibers with too much heat or friction.
One important thing to remember when wearing a Dimples Hera Wig is to avoid pulling on the lace.
The lace is very delicate and can tear easily if you tug on it or use it to adjust the wig.
Instead, you should always use the ear tabs or the back label to move or reposition the wig.
This way, you can protect your wig and enjoy its natural beauty for a long time.
Remember, putting on a wig takes some practice and patience, but it can also be fun and rewarding.
With time, you will become more confident and skilled at achieving the perfect fit and style for your wig.
Enjoy your new look with pride, knowing that your wig is well-fitted and comfortable.
Putting on a wig can be a fun and transformative experience.
By following the steps outlined above and taking your time to adjust and customize the fit, you can achieve a natural and comfortable look.
Here are some final thoughts to keep in mind when putting on a wig:
Don't be discouraged if it takes a few attempts to get the wig placement and style just right.
Putting on a wig is a skill that improves with practice. Take your time, be patient, and experiment until you find the most flattering and comfortable fit.
Wearing a wig can enhance your self-expression and allow you to explore different hairstyles and looks.
Embrace your new look with confidence and rock it proudly.
Remember that your beauty shines from within, and the wig is just an accessory that adds to your unique style.
Many wigs offer customization features such as adjustable straps, wig clips, or lace front options.
Take advantage of these features to tailor the fit and style to your liking.
Don't hesitate to make adjustments and experiment to find what works best for you.
Proper wig care is essential to maintain its quality and longevity.
Follow the manufacturer's instructions for cleaning, storing, and styling your wig.
Regular maintenance will ensure that your wig continues to look its best and provide a comfortable fit.
Use hair care products that are specifically made for wigs.
Try Dimples Hair Care, a range of shampoos, conditioners and sprays that are gentle, nourishing and effective.
Dimples Hair Care products are designed to keep your wig looking natural, healthy and beautiful.
Whether you have a synthetic or human hair wig, Dimples Hair Care can help you maintain its quality and style.
If you're new to wearing wigs or need assistance with fitting and styling, consider seeking guidance from a professional wig consultant.
They can provide valuable advice, make customizations, and help you achieve the desired look effortlessly.
Book your consultation with one of our hair experts today!
Remember, putting on a wig should be a fun and enjoyable experience.
Experiment with different styles, hair colors, and lengths to discover your favorite looks.
Whether you're wearing a wig for fashion, convenience, or personal reasons, embrace the versatility and freedom it offers.
With a bit of practice and confidence, you'll be able to confidently wear your wig and express your unique style with ease.
The steps of putting on a wig are very similar for most types of wigs, but there are some slight variations depending on the type of wig cap and the style of the wig.
For example, lace front wigs require more care and attention than other types of wigs, as the lace is very delicate and needs to be trimmed and secured properly.
Lace wigs are popular because they create a natural-looking hairline that allows you to wear the hair away from your face.
Lace front wigs have a thin strip of lace along the front edge of the wig cap that mimics the look of your natural hairline.
The lace is designed to sit flat and flush against your forehead, creating a seamless transition between the wig and your skin.
However, not all lace front wigs are the same.
Some lace front wigs come pre-cut and ready to wear, while others have excess lace that needs to be cut before wearing.
Dimples Hera Lace Front Wig stands out from other lace front wigs with its unique features that make it easier to wear and more natural-looking.
Some lace front wigs have excess lace that extends beyond the hairline.
This lace needs to be carefully cut before wearing the wig, following the shape of your natural hairline.
Cutting the lace can be tricky and intimidating, as you don't want to cut too much or too little or damage the wig in the process.
If you are not confident or experienced in cutting lace, you may want to opt for a pre-cut lace front wig instead.
Pre-cut lace front wigs have the excess lace already trimmed for you, saving you time and hassle.
Dimples lace front wigs come pre-cut and ready to wear, so you don't have to worry about cutting the lace yourself.
Wigs can be made using different methods of production: hand-tied or machine-made.
Each method has its own advantages and disadvantages, depending on your preferences and needs.
Hand-tied wigs are made by hand-knotting individual strands of hair onto a thin mesh cap.
This creates a very natural look and feels, as the hair can move freely and be parted in any direction.
Hand-tied wigs are also more breathable and comfortable than machine-made wigs, as they conform to your head shape and do not have any bulky seams or wefts.
Dimples Hera Wigs are 100% hand-tied, giving you the highest quality and most realistic wig possible.
Machine-made wigs are made by sewing hair onto strips of fabric called wefts, which are then attached to a cap.
This method is faster and cheaper than hand tying, but it also results in a less natural look and feel.
Machine-made wigs tend to have more volume and density than hand-tied wigs, which can make them look unnatural or heavy.
Machine-made wigs also have limited styling options, as they can only be parted in certain directions due to the way the wefts are sewn onto the cap.
Hand-tied wigs are more expensive than machine-made wigs for several reasons:
Synthetic Hair, Human Hair, and Remy Hair are different types of hair fibers that are used to make wigs.
Each type of wig hair has its own advantages and disadvantages, depending on your preferences and budget.
Synthetic hair is made from man-made fibers that mimic the look and feel of natural hair.
Synthetic hair wigs are easy to care for, as they do not require styling or washing.
They also retain their shape and color well, even in humid conditions.
However, synthetic hair wigs cannot be exposed to heat, such as curling irons or blow dryers, as they can melt or damage the fibers.
Synthetic hair wigs also tend to have a shorter lifespan than human hair wigs, as they can become frizzy or dull over time.
Human Hair is made from real hair that is collected from donors.
Human hair wigs offer the most natural look and feel, as they can be styled, colored, and washed just like your own real hair.
They also have more movement and shine than synthetic hair wigs.
However, human hair wigs are more expensive than synthetic hair wigs, as they require more processing and care.
Human hair wigs also need to be styled regularly, as they can lose their shape or curl after washing.
Human hair wigs can also be affected by environmental factors, such as humidity or sun exposure, which can alter their color or texture.
Remy Hair is a type of human hair that is considered to be the highest quality and most desirable.
Remy hair is collected from donors in a way that preserves the natural direction of the cuticles, which are the outer layer of the hair shaft.
This means that all the cuticles are aligned in the same direction, which reduces tangling and matting.
Remy hair also undergoes minimal processing, which preserves its natural strength and softness.
Remy hair wigs are more expensive than other types of human hair wigs, but they also last longer and look more natural.
Human hair wigs and toppers can be quite expensive for several reasons.
This video from our CEO perfectly explains exactly why.
It's important to note that while human hair wigs and toppers may be expensive upfront, they can be a worthwhile investment for individuals seeking a natural and long-lasting hair replacement solution. With proper care, they can provide a more realistic look and feel compared to synthetic alternatives, making them a popular choice for many people.
Lacie Rodriguez shows you how to properly wear your #dimpleshair Clio 14L French hand-tied hair topper.
]]>Are you tired of dealing with bad hair days and frizzy, unmanageable locks? It's time to upgrade your hair game with Dimples Toppers, the ultimate solution for achieving flawless, gorgeous hair in minutes.
But what makes Dimples Toppers stand out from other hairpieces on the market? For starters, their toppers are expertly crafted and shipped in a convenient bag with a label and net to keep your hair secure during shipping. Once you remove the net, you'll find a Hang tag with all the essential details you need to know about your new topper, including where the back is located.
But here's the catch: your topper won't come pre-styled, which means you'll need to put in a little effort to achieve a natural-looking part and style that works for you. Luckily, Dimples has got you covered with their handmade toppers that are designed to be styled with ease.
So how do you go about styling your new topper? First, you'll need to find the right spot to place it on your head, which is typically a few inches back from your hairline. Next, use a teasing brush to create a natural-looking part in your topper, starting at the back and working your way forward. This will help create a natural-looking part that blends seamlessly with your own hair.
Once you've created your part, it's time to style your topper to match your desired look. Whether you want sleek, straight locks or voluminous, curly waves, Dimples Toppers can be easily styled to achieve the perfect look for any occasion.
And the best part? Dimples Toppers are made with high-quality materials that are designed to last, which means you can enjoy flawless, gorgeous hair for months on end with just one topper.
So why wait? Say goodbye to bad hair days and hello to effortlessly gorgeous locks with Dimples Toppers. Whether you're looking to add volume, length, or just a touch of glam to your everyday look, these toppers are the ultimate solution for achieving flawless hair in minutes. Thanks for tuning in, and happy topper-wearing!
]]>Do you want to add some volume and length to your hair without going overboard? Are you tired of dealing with stiff and unruly hair that just doesn't look natural? If so, the Clio heat-friendly topper is the perfect solution for you!
This amazing topper is designed to give you a natural and effortless look that seamlessly blends in with your own hair. Its floppy and flexible construction allows it to sit flat and flush on your head, making it look like a natural part of your hair.
The Clio topper features a two and a half by five-inch light base with inches of length, making it an excellent choice for those who are new to hair toppers. It's affordable and easy to wear, and it comes in one of our best-selling colors, honey bun rooted. The root color gives it a realistic and natural appearance that's perfect for everyday wear.
One of the best things about the Clio topper is that it's made with heat-friendly synthetic hair. This means that you can style it just like you would your own hair. You can straighten it, curl it, or add volume to it, giving you the freedom to achieve any hairstyle you desire.
The Clio heat-friendly topper is the perfect entry piece for anyone looking to enhance their natural beauty effortlessly. It's like the white zinfandel of toppers - a flawless addition that won't break the bank. So why not give it a try? You'll be amazed at how natural and effortless your hair will look with the Clio topper. Don't wait any longer, get yours today!
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Jannica Olin is a woman who has experienced a lot of changes in her life, particularly when it comes to her appearance. For many years, Jannica's blonde hair and blue eyes were part of her identity. But sometime in August, she began to notice bald spots on her head. After consulting with a doctor, she learned that she had alopecia. Over the next six months, Jannica's hair became so thin that she eventually had to shave it all off. This was a difficult experience for Jannica, who had always found affirmation and identity in her hair.
Like many women, Jannica had placed a lot of her self-worth in her hair. She had always kept it blonde and long, and people often assumed that she wore extensions. Jannica's hair gave her a sense of beauty and self-confidence, even when she didn't necessarily feel that way about herself. So, when she had to shave it all off, it was a painful and emotional experience. As she gathered up her hair from the floor, she even noticed some gray hairs, which added to her distress.
But despite the difficulties she faced, Jannica found a way to embrace her new appearance. She realized that wearing a wig that looked like her old hair was not the solution for her. Instead, she wanted the freedom to explore different wig styles and express herself in new ways. Jannica realized that there was no shame in wearing wigs and that it could be a fun and creative way to express herself.
With the help of Dimples wigs, Jannica found a way to turn her alopecia journey into a positive experience. Instead of feeling like she had to cover up her baldness or wear a wig that mimicked her old hair, Jannica began to embrace her new appearance and experiment with different wig styles. She found that wearing wigs was not only fun and creative, but it also allowed her to express herself in new ways. And most importantly, it gave her the confidence to be herself and not hide who she really was.
Jannica's story is an inspiring one, and it serves as a reminder of the importance of self-acceptance and self-expression. As women, we often place a lot of our self-worth in our appearance, particularly our hair. But Jannica's experience shows us that there is so much more to us than our physical appearance. We can embrace our differences and find new ways to express ourselves, whether it's through wigs, makeup, or fashion.
Dimples wigs played a vital role in Jannica's journey, and they can do the same for anyone else who is struggling with hair loss or alopecia. With their wide range of styles and colors, Dimples wigs can help you find the perfect wig to express yourself and feel confident in your appearance. And like Jannica, you may even find that wearing wigs can be a fun and exciting way to experiment with different looks and styles.
Jannica Olin's alopecia journey is an inspiring reminder that beauty comes in many forms, and that there is no shame in wearing wigs or embracing your differences. With the help of Dimples wigs, anyone can find the confidence to be themselves and express themselves in new and exciting ways. So, if you're struggling with hair loss or alopecia, remember that you are not alone, and that there are resources out there to help you embrace your unique beauty and style.